We're a kinky couple that loves to cam, and have been experimenting with swinging recently. Love it! HER I'll fill this in later. ;) HIM I'm a kind and intelligent guy that is a good listener. I love good conversation and silly jokes. I enjoy being Dominant, submissive, and good old vanilla. When I'm Domming I am in charge. A scene is agreed on and I take control. To the subs who top from the bottom: watch out! You will be punished if you don't make me happy. When I'm submissive I am truly at your command. I like to be humiliated, trampled on, smothered, ignored, hurt and just generally used. My wife and I enjoy switching with each other. I like to give and receive pain. Yay S&M!!! :) I like dirty emails and text chat. Threesomes and group sex is a big turn on for both me and my wife. A large curvy and/or strong body turns me on. Watching someone have an orgasm turns me on. Voyeur/peep fetish. Mutual masturbation fetish. Smother/facesitting fetish. Shoe fetish. Lingerie fetish. I'm bi-curious. That doesn't mean that if we meet a straight couple for fun that I'm going to chase the guy around. Not cool! I'm not interested in straight guys, and actually I don't meet many guys that turn me on. I respect the sexual preference of others, and if we are playing with a straight guy, I get that he's there to have fun with my wife and not me. I enjoy embarrassing and humiliating people, but not in a mean way. More of a "come out of your shell you silly little thing!" kind of a vibe... related to my Dominating side. I promise you that I really am a very nice guy... ;) Weirdest fetish: muscle fatigue or "pump". I love marathon sex sessions where I sweat and reach muscle failure in my thighs or other muscles. Just before I orgasm I slow down to hold it back, and the fitter I am the better I'm able to "keep it up", so to speak. The burn or pump, fast heart rate and adrenaline rush can trigger a very powerful orgasm! Favorite body part: LEGS/ASS/HIPS (in fishnets and a garter belt of course!) Happily married. I am not seeking a LTR. I have that with my wonderful wife. We share everything, including our partners, and we're definitely NOT into cuckolding, so don't bother trying to pursue that. We're still fairly new to the BDSM & swing scenes (less than a year), and we're both really turned on by many aspects of it. We both toyed with it in our teens, but never explored it with each other until this year, after 6 wonderful vanilla years together. We've played with others a few of times (a threesome with another guy, and then another time with his wife) and we want to do it more. Although we're content with our current play partners, we'd like to meet interested couples (or maybe singles) online and gradually feel it out to see if we want to play. We like to chat on webcam, both together and alone. Ask for our messenger IDs and we will share. My other interests include working out, cycling, swimming, music, walking, hiking, nature, people watching, debating/intense discussion, etc. Music is a big one.