happily married...but we like to have fun...have never fully swapped...lol...is there such a thing as not "fully" swapping..but we love to trade pics, cam etc...we love to be exhibitionist at heart...have sex outdoors, role play alot.... We always start slow...send us a pic...and we can start from there...we have made several nice friends..single girls and couples that we now chat and trade videos and pics with. We have had sex in front of other couples who have done the same (we have just never swapped yet..."can you call that soft swaping???") We never post any pics from sessions with others(privacy is important to us). Our soft swing style is trading pics and caming with others while fucking etc... We are perfect for each other...tom loves for me to act like a slut in public while we play...I love to play the role...if I had a man who wanted to be conservative I would be very sad..I am lucky Tom lets me flirt and where skimpy outfits in public...it turns him on (and me) and then he fucks me hard and tells me how all the men (and some ladies) were staring at me...its our way of letting off steam...the more slutty I act the better the sex...and isn't that what it is all about..heheheh I have fun with girls once in a while...Tom loves to watch...I have only let him use the other girls a few times...but I have to really be in the moment and feel ok with the other person. We do not fuck with other single men...I always tell Tom the thrill for us is him telling me that I want the other cock and treating me like a whore during sex. Its going to the line but not stepping over it that makes it fun. Why girls have been envolved you may ask...well that is less for Tom and really for me...I love sexy women...Geez Tom really got lucky....