gozap's blog post - Bit Sad

Sunday, August 30, 2009, 2:58:24 PM

There aren't many things that get me sad but in the last 3 weeks we have had to have both our dogs put to sleep. They were both nearly 16 and have been our soulmates through the years and the house seems so quiet. Once one of them went the other simply gave up and really didn't have a quality of life being both deaf, blind, incontinent and obviously heartbroken. Those of you who have animals will know that having to make the final decision, although humane is the hardest thing in the world.

Funny isn't it. I have never shed a tear over any human who has passed away but both of us cried bucketloads over the last few days.

The initial impulse it to immediately go out and buy a replacement companion but we will leave it at least 12 months before we make a decision either way and see how we feel. Still we have lots of lovely memories and pictures and their memory will remain with us forever especially as they were both rescue dogs.

Will we get over it...yes, but in the meantime something seems to be missing in our lives. Hopefully the empty space in our hearts will heal. Hope that doggy heaven is ready, they were really mischievous.

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Dirty_Sweet on 30-Aug-09 15:00:57

So sorry for your loss! Putting a pet down can very hard. :(

DicksyChick on 30-Aug-09 16:17:45

Oh I'm so sorry. A friend said to me once "they're here for a good time, not a long time" - that helped me a little :(

mdguy on 30-Aug-09 16:23:17

Oh dear. :(( I'm sorry, m8. Hope they will rest in peace.

foxilady on 30-Aug-09 16:31:35

I am so sad to hear this...I have two dogs..both 15 years old xxx

bluecat33 on 30-Aug-09 19:05:15

my warmest sympathy!

gtwcw on 31-Aug-09 1:37:23

Aww, sorry to hear this. As hard as it is, it is the kindest thing that we can do for them. Pets love us unconditionally, which is why it is so hard to let them go. Big hugs on the way to you both . xox

chas5 on 3-Sep-09 9:08:31

I'm sorry for your loss too, though you did the right, kind thing. Hugs from me too.

sw6996 on 4-Sep-09 23:43:27

I completely understand how you feel. My wife and I have two dogs that are both approaching 15. We know that they won't be with us much longer and dread the day that they are gone. We debate whether we should move on quickly or wait for some time before we try to find a "replacement." Good luck with your decision.

bnhla on 16-Sep-09 16:19:00

Having read this reminds me of when I was faced with the same choice and feelings over putting down my dogs. Sorry for your loss.

MW_Lover on 16-Sep-09 23:20:59

Like all the above, I am so sorry to hear that you had to go through this. Several years ago we had to have our most favorite dog of all put to sleep, and I wept as we did it, with the dog in my arms. My wife is still not quite ready for the new dog ... the memories are strong ...