I just had to post the photo of my arrest by her I'm doors! She decided to buy a set of furry handcuffs and then proceeded to lock up my goods and chattels, much to our hilarity...however it felt quite good! Here in the UK the police are known by the slang term "fuzz" hence the blogpost title. Could I be turning into a perve I ask......great fun and loads of laughs which is what a good sex life is all about. Keep safe everyone.

I took full advantage of a slow dull wekend to make sure that the satin basque that I bought my wife a few weeks ago made an appearance. Unfortunately she is still hounded by the impression that she is not attractive so the nice comments we got are very welcome. I had a small rant at one of the pictures which some smart arsed viewer(s) marked down to a 2!!! Why do they even bother, especially when they haven"t got the balls to post any of their own pictures?

Still, the majority of the comments we received were nice, which is most welcome. I tried the chat rooms for a while last night but wasn't impressed at all, if there was one thing I"d improve on NN it is to have facilities for older couples but that is a small gripe.

Hopefully we will be back in Italy within a couple of weeks and I can"t wait to see some sun as it has been a dreadful summer here in the UK. So much for global warming eh!

So, back to the grindstone and love to all our friends on NN.

After my recent postings I've begun to think really deeply about what men want to see in a female picture.

Most of the people who have posted comments seem to appreciate the erotic and sexy poses as opposed too the purely explicit ones. Maybe it is the intimacy of "what is to come" that is a real turn on as opposed to having everything "on a plate" so to speak.

As for myself, yes I prefer eroticism every time and much prefer to see the female form scantily clad with just a hint of mysticism and intrigue as it is so much more memorable and exciting. I suppose it is the old adage of the stripper who although finishing her act completely naked, actually grabs the attention of the audience with the removal of her clothes in the most sensual way.

So, when you out there view pictures, do you see yourself in a fantasy involving the subject, or do you simply delight in the beauty and sensual content of the picture? I'd be interested to know.

Don't get me wrong, I simply love to se a picture of a beautiful pussy, but somehow in isolation it doesn't have the same mental effect even though the physical effect remains. <lol>

That brings me to anothre point. I guess there are lots of posters like myself who have to obscure faces on the pictures for what should be obvious reasons. This really does take away a lot of the eroticism as a facial expression in a normal pose can be extremely sexy, adding more than words can tell to the overall effect of the picture. Take for instance Dirty_Sweet, her postings are all that more sexy because of the fact that you can see that beautiful smile QED. So, does the face/smile have maybe more sexual stimulus than the physical body itself...interesting.

Finally, Maybe it's old age and maturity, but the female form of an older woman with curves I find infinitely more attractive than the stick thin "size 0" models that the media tout as being the ideal woman. Many times I conjure up images of my wife with that sultry look that she has and end up with a permanent stiffy all day long, which isn't bad after being marrid for a long time, believe me.

Personally, I never did like women of my own age group when I was young, always prefering the curves of a mature woman and a gentle sultry smile and that hasn't chenged as I get have aged. As I jokingly said to my wife the other evening, I want something to move around when I'm making love, if only to let me know that I'm having an effect...you can guess the dirty look I got after that comment!

So you out ther, let us know what you like to see in a picture, I'd certainly be interested to find out.

Well, I have sorted out the posters causing us a lot of aggro and hopefully we won't have any more. Suffice to say they won't be doing it again using their various aliases. Can't go great details, but anyone who provides their email address and doesn't know that it is possible to locate it fairly easily and locate the perpetrator doesn't know how advanced IT Forensic science has advanced.

So to all our friends I have posted some nice pics taken today after our shopping expedition. I demanded a fashion show, take a look and enjoy!

I'm just going to post a couple of pics during the next 24 hours so that hopefully the people who matter will know the reason(s) why we are stopping posting. The pictures I will post will be a small selection of the most viewed pictures which were subsequently removed or replaced with others. If nothing else it will show the bullies just exactly what they are going to miss - not that they will care as their next targets are probably lined up as we speak...very sad.

Then we'll maybe clear the pictures down - unless requested, and just become "lurkers" for at least a while.

My head is in a spin at the moment and I'm just plain angry at what has happened. May even have a couple of beers thes evening to feel a little better.

If anyone has a special request for a particular picture then I'll try and oblige if possible.

Sorry that it has ended this way - at least for now, but wee both need some time to think and take stock of what to do next.

You all keep safe out there now.
xxx

Those of you whyo are NNfriends should know that the only reason that we both post is that I particularly want the world to appreciate what a wonderful woman I have as my wife. She isn't a perfect size 10 with skinny hips and thin legs, she's a mature woman with curves to die for, a personality that simply shines out and makes my day brighter along with everyone around her - but that is what I love about her.

The object of posting was to try and build her confidence in the fact that there are many other people who appreciate the curves and warmness of a true "woman" and to a certain extent it has been a success.

However, as you may well have gleaned from my previous brief post, a certain minority of NN posters seem to take great delight inrude, malicious and frankly disturbing PM's and comments which I personally am not prepared to subject my wife to. Yes, I can remove these on a daily basis as we are premium members, but it is really sad that this behaviour goes on at all. Just what do the posters gain? As I say in our profile, if you don;t like it then simply move on.

The last couple of days have not been nice and It is symptomatic of the "bully" syndrome, hence my small experiment that I promised to write up. The bullies don;t seem to like it if you post pictures with agressive attacking comments in them such as "are you really man eough to f**k me" etc. Nevertheless I don;t want to post graphic comments on our pictures.

I want to portray my wife and our relationship as it is i.e gentle, loving, thoughtful etc and all the other sentiments that give you that "warm inside" feeling every day of your life. Anyone who has truly been in love will know exactly what I mean and it seems that the perpetrators of the nasty comments simply do not have a soul. Maybe rather that being angry at them I should pity them as they will never experience the feelings that we both enjoy.

As a result of this, we have decided to stop posting and simply stand on the sidelines to observe as this is the easiest option. I don;t intend to pander to their wishes and give them any ammunition. OK guys (loosly speaking) you have won, but what have you achieved apart from depriving (I hope) other genuine NN friends of the pleasure of viewing a beautiful woman - I hope you are proud, but you will not get any more help from us.

I am sorry to our friends that it has come to this, but at least short term I see not other option. I would still just want to know why, but I won;t let it eat me up.

Thank you to the hundreds of people who have sent nice PM's and comments ofer the months, they are most appreciated as I said previously, and I hope that we can solve the situation maybe in the medium to long term...suggestions welcome.

Take care out there al of you and once again thank you for your nice sentiments. To the bullies and bad boys, well the field is now yours...over to you, but this couple are not biting.

XXX from us both

Just to expand on my previous blog entries I'm conducting an experiment with a couple of picture...I'll reveal more later.

Well I seem to have opened up a complete bag of worms after my rant in the previous blog entry. Suffice to say that I have had lots of nice PM's from members who appreciate the postings and look forward to new pictures as they arrive, to them I say thank you but to the idiots who have PM'd me with, well shall we say not very intelligent comments, let me say that you must lead really sad lives.

OK, I can put you on the twit filter list, but it seems to me that what you all really need is a good set of morals and some education. For God's sake, the messages, even though crude, don't consist of any form of intelligent English let alone content which saddens me greatly.

Why should I be sad you may ask, well I have an inherrent belief that everyone has a good side, but for these posters I can't see it no matter how hard I look. Just what do they aim to achieve with their arcane comments and crude suggestions? If it is shock value then it certainly would take more than that to phase me or my wife.

Unfortunately this "Phone Text" society seems to be producing people (and I use the phrase very loosely) who have a total inability to communicate on any level other than grunts and moans. Their social skills are obviously none existent and yet they crave acceptance of the very people who they deem fit to annoy and denegrate - how sad.

Well I'm going to post a few more pictures of the nice new satin basque tht I've bought my wife, of which I had a really exciting fashion show last night. it obviously lead to other things as well, and I think she looks absolutely stunning in it and I hope you all do too. However we will leave that for you to comment on.

After that, well it may well be that we finish posting, but I've not made a decision on that as of yet. Maybe I'm a little oversensitive, maybe not but I certainly don't feel comfortable despite the many nice comments many people have posted - thanks.

In the short time I've been on NN, I've made a few "friends" and I call them friends without naming them. You know just who you are as I've exchanged PM's with you and I don't do that as the norm. If I do stop posting I shall miss your comments and nice words. Meanwhile I am going to cull down the friends list and at the very least remove all those who it would appear are out to make trouble or cause offence. With a few exceptions, most of these people don't even bother to post a picture or description of themselves even, and I suppose that says a lot.

Still, it's weekend and maybe a little R&R will help in our deliberations, so for those of you who enjoy our posts I say thank you and for those who don't ....well tough titty.

Hoping you all have a really enjoyable weekend.
2nd Rant over!

Over the past few weeks I have posted pictures of my wife for two reasons.

1. To try and convince her that she is truly beautiful and that others also think this.

2. To show the world that you don't have to be a "perfect Size 0" to be attractive to people as many men simply adore the curves of a mature attractive woman.

However, recently I have bee innundated with what I con only describe as "gutter level filth" in the comments that people leave. Why, I ask do people find the need to put comments in which effectively disrespect the very women we are viewing? I'm confused, and in a spate of PM's between chas5 and myself we came to the conclusion that many in society in general have simply stopped regarding women as people with feelings and oppinions and resorted to the basest animal instincts which quite frankly I always believe separated us from the apes.

A woman isn't simply there to as they say "F**k" whenever is convenient without regard to her feelings and and needs, she is an object to treasure and love and make love to - a word that doesn't seem to appear in the spellcheckers of many posters. If this sociery continues to progress in this selfish and self centred direction then I'm glad that I probably won't be here to sample the results in 20-30 years.

I was brought up in a time when you opened doors for ladies, gave up your seat for them on the bus, treated them with respect and dignity and most of all treasured their feelings. Beauty is an inner quality that never dies. Exterior beauty may well fade with time but the inner beauty of a woman simply grows and blooms forever.

I know my wife isn't perfect. OK she hcarries a bit too much weight and hates her overall shape but you know what.....to me she is a goddess and I wouldn't change her for the world. I am truly blessed and very much in love with her.

So come on you NN posters, give the people posting here a break and if you haven't got anything nice to say then ....move on. It isn't big or clever to hurt people's feelings and if there is a judgement day then I hope that retribution and justice will be served out to the apropriate people.

I love the fact that other people appreciate our posts and yes, it is a bit of a turn on for me, mainly because I am proud to be married to such a wonderful woman.

However as I stated to chas5, I am seriously considering not bothering if this abuse continues..,we both don't need it.

Meanwhile, I hopefully will be treated this evening because I bought her a beautiful satin basque earlier this year that needs christening and I can't waitto see her in it. No doubt I'll want to share the image with the "gentlemen posters" amongst you, but we'll wait and see.

Well that is the end of the rant for what it is worth. Am I being over critical or are there others who share my view? I hope the latter is true and that "gentlemen" still exist out there in the big wide cyberworld.

You all keep Safe now.