hapyjacq's blog post - question...

Monday, July 14, 2008, 2:50:56 AM
i have one and i have no one that i know that i can ask...so here it is ... anyone who knows me knows about my son... so what i want to know is this... he has a friend who talks to me.. he tells me al is very different between daytime and nite time....at nite he's him ... he's alan... and during the day he's closed up and to himself and quiet (not around the fam)....
but like out in public and stuff...his friend says he see's him opening up more and more ...but is this just normal process of getting comfortable with yourself?? the change i see in him since graduating is amazing... all anyone ever wants is for their kids to be happy...i think it's all him just getting okay with the thought that everyone is okay... am i right???

hope all you sexy people had a beautiful weekend...

mwa jacq

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KendriX on 14-Jul-08 3:04:13
I don't get the difference between the day and night behavior.

BM21 on 14-Jul-08 3:13:20
I'm guessing he is just trying to adjust to it all. Sometimes it can be rough...

Mean&Evil1 on 14-Jul-08 3:37:32
Hapy, Id say hes playing it safe, keeping himself gaurded. Self-preservation is everyones priority even if we dont think about it.

Benjie Thai on 14-Jul-08 5:26:14
I think being comfortable with ourselves is a long process. Your son is lucky to have you along.

mdguy on 14-Jul-08 15:38:37
He's trying to see who to trust and who not to. He's 18 and it would be hard to do even if he weren't gay. It's doubly difficult. It's not only normal, but nothing to be worried about. As he gets his footing, there will only be one "Alan".