hapyjacq's blog post - things that make me go hmmmmm

Friday, October 27, 2006, 5:50:13 AM

so i'm best friends with this chick for years... things come up mainly parenting differences and i suppose alot has to do with me my sexuality... meaning i'm really good at this point in life with me... so we just totally drift apart.. i was going in a different direction so i think it effected her more than me ... anyway we start talking a bit more and more... so when i find my brother i want to tell her about it (she has/had been through ups and downs of my search prior to parting).... i say i found my brother she says cool i have to go my hubby's home... okay fine ... i go out of town i come back ... nothing ..nothing... nothing... so then i go over the nite before last because my cuz want's me too ... not one fucking ??? about him ..... i don't know maybe it's me but i find it really totally infuckingcredible that not anything is ever mentioned.... blows my mind and makes me thankful at the same time for two reasons ... one that we detatched before it was really devastating to me that she didn't give 2 shits... and two that there are some really very awesome, special, lovely people in the world that can have interest, support, compassion and caring without ever even meeting me beyond the cyber world.... you all know who you are and you all are truly just great people..... mwa ..... jacquie

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bernie6911 on 27-Oct-06 6:30:50

hmmm I am not sure what to say other than I also know somewhat about hurt from so called friendships because I know what friendship is all about and when one has given support and an ear to a friend for sometime and then you need just some one to vent too and or just share some good news and they act like they either do not have the time or want too give you a good pat on the back with encouragement it hurts and it hurts deep. I also have an issue that has hurt me some now and in the past. I guess what i am trying to say is remember who really loves and cares for you and forget those that don't.
Think of the positive you finally found your long lost brother and he is so very cool and genuine and I am for very happy for you. Love you.. mwaaaaaa

Manic Panic on 27-Oct-06 11:42:03

Well you know I luv ya and I was so glad that you decided to blog about it all and share it with us :) PS...it's her loss sweetie hugs

honey turkey on 27-Oct-06 23:06:34

Who needs her if she cant have the common decency to ask about this HUGE happening in ur life...may sound cold, but cmon. You know who loves ya and who always has time to talk and to listen (not just hear) you!