i sign into yahoo chat tonite .. the first time in awhile and i have an offline message from a certain someone... let me tell ya i get excited i'm like wooooo hoooooo finally there's the love... then i open it .... i'm told i'm two faced .. i have peoples heads up my ass and that i'm talkin smack behind someones back.... wtf???? i would really like to say for the record i have one rule i keep always... i will never say something behind a persons back unless i am fully prepared to say it to their face (that is if they don't hang up on me)... and to someones face i would like to ask why are you stirrin the pot??? i bowed out gracefully .... really hurt i might add but gracefully ... i have to wonder sometimes what motivates people ...leaving the room shaky pissed a little less... jacq