his_princess's blog post

While I have no need to justify MY opinion or YOUR accusations, I will.

First, I've been a legal secretary/paralegal for thirty years and I never claimed to know a thing about psychiatry. I merely stated what I know based on first-hand knowledge from my own past and others in the same boat.

Second, I was referring not to my friend, but to you in the self-appointed role of knight in shining armor protecting the alleged damsel in distress. You seem like an honorable man. I truly hope you do not find yourself played the fool.

Third, he has nothing to prove to me. The fact that he has not lashed out in response to the allegations made says much about his character. Were he what she claims, his ego and reputation would not tolerate silence.

Fourth, there is no reason to protect my friend. She is a strong woman who knows her own mind and heart. I trust her judgment without hesitation -- especially with regard to the man she loves.

Fifth, I have no need to protect him. You, however, I worry about. Again, you seem like an honorable man and I get that you are merely doing what you feel is right based on the information you have been provided; be it credible or not.

Sixth, I have said nothing in the comments of either your blogs or hers. I've got enough self-restraint to keep those thoughts off your pages. Clearly, neither of you do, therefore I took the measures necessary to stop either of you from spreading additional venom in my direction. It's an option the site provides and which I exercised.