horse_brat's blog post

The shear joy or misery today...Im not so sure...

For those that know whats going on, I'm dealing with child custody with my kids and their father. Today was most of the crap put aside...

I gave him the "revised" custody agreement that he needs to sign, read it over, cried....paid support and gave the kids a hug and kiss.

He is taking it to his lawyer to get the court stamp and its over. He gave up custody of his kids.

Normally I would be overjoyed that I finally "won" but I feel so bad for him...He truly loves his kids...I guess he just needed the kick in the butt to realise it.

Things are obviously not too good at his place (seeing as he showed up today without his wedding band on) and he is bringing all of the kids stuff over here. The air mattress in the back of his truck was a pretty good hint too.

His 3 yr marriage is ended...or ending. Shame. I had hopes that he would be happy, seeing as our marriage failed rather quickly, one could hope he found happiness.

I don't hate the guy, I just think he needs a kick in the butt sometimes.

I feel bad for the kids as they dont see him much (he lives down the street) and well I think he needs to make an effort. It's to the point where my oldest wants nothing to do with him at times...She was his little baby, first born etc and now...I just don't know what he is thinking...

I used the "I can't see my dad anymore, it hurts like hell, I can't imagine what they feel knowing you live so close and you can't pick up a phone or come visit"

He cried harder...Good, here is your kick in the ass buddy. Don't lose the precious things in life...

Well thats my vent for the day...


and PS> Thanks again to all daddy's around that want to see their kids. Seriously, thank you