horse_brat's blog post - hey

Tuesday, August 19, 2008, 9:28:03 AM

Sorry, laptop has been out of commission...
but Im back...

I had an interesting conversation with my friend today...she is having huge issues with her husband and she asked me this, and I think some people might relate...I didnt know how to answer her...any suggestions?

How can u give up the someone you love?

When is the right time?

Do u give up on them after you have done everything in your power for them, and they don't even realize that you've been there for them the whole time.

Do you give up after you've gave them something priceless and they act as if they deserved it.

Do you give up after you've wasted years of your life dealing with them and have nothing to show for it.

When is the right time to give up?

Do you continue to put yourself through so much, being sad all the time, staying away from people because you don't want to take your anger out in them.

Do you give up after the person shows you they love you but can never tell you.

Or do u give up after you know the person you love has been with someone else but they always run back to you.

How do you tell the person you love that it's over and you don't want to deal with them anymore without getting hurt.

anyone?

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TeaGirl on 19-Aug-08 10:34:45

From personal experience there is no right time... there just comes a time when there is no other choice. It was one of the most difficult things I ever had to do.... I felt like I had failed that I should have made it work.... but you know what, I tried... and now it's over I have my life and my self esteem back and I realise that it was one of the best decisions I could have made. No-one deserves to be made feel useless by someone who is supposed to love them.

I wish your friend strength, luck and happiness xxxx

SexiBex on 19-Aug-08 10:45:35

There is no 'right' time. You can only decide that for yourself. There is a line, a boundary, and when you reach the line, you have to choose... do u push the line back furthur, or walk then?

I wish you both love and strength. xx

~wench~ on 19-Aug-08 11:41:17

I cant give up the one i love...even though i sometimes should.... I have no answer..sorry hun..hugs xxx

six_gun_rider1954 on 19-Aug-08 12:15:08

I agree with TeaGirl and also SexiBex .. . there is really no right time and to give up on someone and not cause hurt ... well that is not possible. You see when two become one and now that needs to change it will cause hurt too the two. Praying for your friend Hun!