janusthorn's blog post - Journey in the mind of an omnivert

Monday, August 22, 2016, 8:47:40 PM
Inside the mind of an omnivert

You may not have realised this but I am an omnivert. Now, now, I can imagine some people's reaction to this - 'what sort of bollocks is he spouting now?' - and I understand that as the first time I heard it, it's exactly what I thought, but hear me out. An omnivert is somebody with both introvert and extrovert qualities. I always used to think myself an introvert - I am very modest and self deprecating (which has limited my career from time to time); I am shy with people I don't know and I prefer written conversation to oral.
But! I also love being the centre of attention! It's like performance and I am therefore great at parties and public speaking etc. I can be the life and soul when I want to be and am not backward about coming forward. So l, you see, there is a paradox. I love a good paradox - it makes life so much more exciting.
NN does appeal to both sides of my character: I can put out; be naughty; be occasionally outrageous; say things I wouldn't in public. But equally, I can be shy and never reveal the real world me. You get real me in either world but just different facets of my personality.
I can spot a lot of extro- intro- and omniverts here - which are you, dear reader?
There is a point to all of this but my introvert side kicked in so I am going to think about it tonight and decide whether to post about that tomorrow!

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mermaid_hunter69 on 23-Aug-16 3:44:06
Maybe i am an omnivert ....
extrovert online and introvert in real life

janusthorn on 23-Aug-16 6:48:05
It is surprising how many people are!

hackelberry77 on 23-Aug-16 8:28:54
hmmm this has given me something to think about

mrsblobby on 23-Aug-16 8:29:42
I'd say a lot of introverts have learned how to act like an extrovert in some situations, like work for example. I'm one of those, I'm painfully shy but can put on a good show of confidence when I need to. I suppose that makes me an omnivert too, thanks for giving it a name!

janusthorn on 23-Aug-16 8:58:28
I can't claim credit for the name but thank you reading my take on it!

MrsFX on 24-Aug-16 22:14:43
This is interesting. For years, I spent my life trying not to be noticed. Stay quiet, get stuff done but don't cause a scene. (This was a coping thing as to not give people a reason to tease me) The older I get, the less I care about others perceptions of me and am more vocal. Online, I definitely feel I'm more confident but I'm learning to do so more in real life. I'm going to look into omnivert a bit more :)
Thanks for the blog!