in my 50's , really shy and nervous about being exposed publicly so discretion is a huge must . i have a full grey beard , some chest hair , single , no experience with a man yet , but want to try it . mostly fantasize about giving oral and getting topped by a mature man . i am overweight , use to bodybuild /powerlift 30 years ago , so have some muscle still , i am heavy but not obese . i am not attracted to overweight guys , or black , asian or latino guys , and get turned on by skinny to average ,lean , white guys . penis size is not really important because i have never taken one before so kind of scared of a big one hurting too much . i get turned on by hairy and older guys , grandpas are hot , as long as they want to top me . i have never tried anything yet with a man ., a mushroom headed dick just makes my mouth water . love hairy arms and legs , and i want to try oral on a man and willing to try anal also . must be clean and disease free .