The assumption that the message in this movie is aimed wholly at women is only partially correct. Women get the message. It is our lived and shared experience. It is affirmation that we are not alone.
Because a friend, another woman, has recently seen the movie it is almost like we are talking in code when we say to some men that they NEED to see the movie. The reaction 100% of the time is NO WAY! We do not suggest this without reason and your "no way" only cements our already low opinion about the behaviour that caused us to make the suggestion.
It would be really cool if just once the response would be "why do you say that?" Indicating that there is at least something going on between their ears and a dialogue could be entered into.
I expect some push back on this. Save your typing. It will only prove yet again, you need to see the movie.