kittykats1's blog post - Mean People Suck

Sometimes I wonder about people, I really do. I wonder what drives them to say mean and hurtful things.

I read something on one of the forum threads today that just really hit home, and not in a pleasant fashion. The comments written by another NN poster on the 'Fat Girl' thread just made my head spin. He basically stated that fat girls are unattractive, unfit, and guys will fuck a fat chick but wouldn't want a relationship with them if there was a thin girl to be had. Also fat girls were 'easy' as they were pretty much desperate to please since men don't really want them. I just couldn't believe my eyes and I also couldn't believe that some stranger's words on some silly forum could cause so much hurt. You see I guess I am a 'fat' girl. Well I am not huge, but I am far from skinny; I can be considered "well padded." I have only ever been skinny-skinny when I was in highschool and was anorexic. Yeah I looked fashion-model thin but I was sick as a dog, very unhealthy.

It just floored me to think that a man would consider me unworthy based on my body type. How shallow can you get?? I personally don't care much about looks. I am attracted to sense of humor, wit, kindness and character. I guess looks are the last thing I consider. Yes I very much enjoy looking at pretty bodies - male and female - and there are many here on NN to enjoy, but it is not what drives me. If I had to choose from some Adonis with a jerky attitude and some average guy with a killer sense of humor and who was fun to be with, I wouldn't think twice. It would be the average dude hands down. It also amused me to hear on that thread that since I was chubby, it would be harder to attract a man as they don't find anything but skinny girls attractive. What a laugh. I have never lacked for male attention, in fact it has always been the exact opposite. I guess that theory goes down in flames lol.

Looks fade, bodies change. We get older, maybe have an illness, have children - whatever, but you will always have that person inside. Do you think the shallow folk of this world stop to consider what you have today body-wise might not be what you have tomorrow or 5, 10,15 years from now? That whole thread was utterly disheartening to read and it makes me wonder why I should even bother continuing to post pics knowing that there are such rude people on NN. I know I am not everyone's cup of tea, and that bothers me not at all. What bothers me is the fact that because of my body type I would be classified automatically as "unattractive" or "unworthy" is just not very cool. I guess personality counts for little in some people's little worlds. I guess it is their loss, although I am sure they wouldn't see it that way.

So in closing the 'haters' of any sort on NN can just go outside and play hide-and-go-fuck-themselves, but to the open minded and fun people of NN I give you all a big, wet kiss Have a great weekend guys & gals

Puurrs to all (well maybe most)

Currently listening to: Sex Pistols "Pretty Vacant"
gawd how ironic is that?!?!?