kittykats1's blog post - The Virgins

I get a few unsolicited PM's every week, in addition to my regular peeps that I correspond with. It's still nice to know that someone is stumbling across my pics, buried though they are since I haven't put up any new pics in like forever. However I have started to see a slightly odd trend in a bunch of these PM's.

Perhaps it is the time of year - school is coming back into session and all - but I seem to be getting a lot of PM's from young men who have asked me to help them lose their virginity. On one hand I am gratified that they would consider me for the task, but the other part of me is seriously creeped out and concerned. I would absolutely never do this, mind you, my moral compass doesn't tip that direction. I don't do the infidelity thing in the least. Yes I fuck other guys and other women but that is within the context of swinging only. I would never go off alone and fuck somebody. Yes a very skewed morality I suppose, but it is how I roll. If my husband woke up today and decided he was done with swinging I would never open my legs for another person other than him ever again, and I wouldn't complain. I love my husband and I respect him too much to ruin our relationship for some random cock-on-the-side.

Which takes me back to the whole virgin thing. I say the same thing to all of them; that while I am flattered, etc etc, my husband and I swing so we only play with couples; good luck, etc etc. I am always polite, I was raised that way. Most of them are also polite but a few try either the guilt trip or the cock-on-the-side factor, saying shit like you don't have to tell your husband, we can sneak around blah blah blah. Those tick me off some. I mean really, coming from a 22 year old dude - I am old enough to be his mother for chrissake! And the encouraging cheating thing is just wrong. Why would I endanger my marriage for a 22 year old cock with zero dick control that is attached to a person who has probably never seen a clitoris in real life? Sorry but that does not sound attractive to me in the least.

Sometimes I wonder what their reasoning is. Is it: well she swings so she will fuck anything, or is it: she must be one of those bored and horny milfs, or is it just: well she is butt naked on a porn site so she must be a slut. Well newsflash boys, I may be considered a milf and yeah I am horny but I am far from bored. And yeah I do fuck other people but I am very very choosy. I don't fuck just anyone. I am not into the random stranger fucks at all. Nope. Not my thing. So that kind of negates the whole slut thing I suppose. Makes me wonder if these young doods have seen American Pie one to many times. They are too young to know who 'Mrs. Robinson' is, but I guarantee you they know who 'Stifler's Mom' is lol.

Another thing that gives me pause is that these guys would happily give it up with some random person they have never met, know nothing about, from a porn site! Holy moly! Could that not be anymore dangerous??? Why aren't they out getting to know 'real' people and having 'real' relationships? I would have never ever fucked some random guy to lose my virginity. I fucked my boyfriend, whom I loved, so it meant something to me I guess. Does it not mean anything to people anymore? Am I outdated in my thinking? Granted I did lose my virginity when I was 16 which was 20 years ago so I guess times change or maybe I am just getting old


Purrs to all,

Currently listening to: K's Choice "Not An Addict"