I was a virgin until I was 22. I went to a Catholic school through the sixth grade. I never dated in high school

nor in college, so, as you can probably imagine, I led a very sexually sheltered life.

The first time I recall ever masturbating, I was 8 or 9, I think. It was summer break, and my younger brother and

I were watching television on a blanket in the living room; okay, actually, he'd fallen asleep, and I was awake

still, as always. I don't remember what was on the TV, I just remember a clip of some celebrity I had a young

girl's crush on. I also remember a strange throbbing, as well. Not knowing what to do, I rubbed myself on the

outside of my pants, which seemed to help, and it felt wonderful. After that one time, I was unstoppable. I would

use the shower head, my fingers, a garden hose, and do it whenever I thought I could get away with it. It was like

finding a brand-new toy!

Things were slow-going for me when I was a Freshman in college, because I lived in a dorm; however, once I moved

off campus, things picked up a little more.

I used to be an avid gamer in the 90s. I played what were called MUDs - multiple user dungeons. The ones I played

were text-based multiplayer role playing games; and while playing, I met many people from all around the world. As

you can imagine, many of those people I met were interested in more than playing games online, and it was when I

was 19 that I finally had my first experience with phone sex. Over the course of a few years, I had a few

partners; one, in fact, that I'd actually met prior to our conversations, and who was ready to come visit me for

more *but* the week he wanted to visit was the week I started getting serious with my now-husband. Once in a while

I wonder how things would've turned out, had I chosen the other man. I had so much fun, though, getting off while

on the phone. One partner was amazed at my libido, and the fact that I could cum so fast and so often. Oh, phone sex was such a hot thrill. I almost miss those days.

But now, look at me. Married for 10 years, together for 15, owner of a sex-toy company...yeah, I'd say it's my total lack of sexual experience that led me to that, as well. It's a lot of fun, though, and I enjoy knowing that I've helped people have better orgasms.