Okay whomever is out there reading this. welcome. My name is Robert I am married (4 now) and I have 2 spoiled kids.

Anywho today was the towns christmas party. This is a small town so everyone has known everyone for like ever.

I have been stuck with the job of doing the dishes at the christmas party for 200 plus people every year since i was like 10. There is this girl who has been stuck with helping me for almost as long.
We grow up together, went to school together, and live down the road from each other 4 most of our lives. It's so bad here that her x is my x's new husband.
Anyway every year since we were about 13 it's been the same thing. she comes to the party looking real hot and every year she just giggles when I tell her so.
same thing tonight. she comes to the party in a low cut top and skin tight jeans. We start cleaning up the dishes and she bends over to clean the junk off the plates with me standing right there looking at everything she has to offer.
Well I have had enough of this shit so I tell her "look girl this is enough. You keep showing me what I can't have. My wife and your husband think there is something going on when there isn't and every year I tell you you're hot and you giggle and go on. Now if I am never getting any then thats fine but stop showing me what I can't have. you are married for the second time and so am I. We ain't kids no more. Either I can have or you need to stop showing."

guess what, she just laffs and says " maybe you can, may you can't. I know you have in your dreams. Most guys do. "
That kind of pissed me off. The problem is we are around each other all the time. my kid and her kid are step syblings now so we kind of have to keep running into each other. It happens every holiday. She drops her kid off with his father and I pic mine up from my x. Same house usually at the same time.
All I am asking is that if I can't have don't stick it out in front of me.
Is that 2 much to ask?

You tell me. Or not what ever Just venting

bye for now