l0cksley's blog post - A door closes, a window opens?

Or something like that. Either way, it's interesting how things can change so rapidly.

So after the news last week that I'm now single, I thought I'd dip my toe back in the dating pool to see if I got a nibble (toe = slow and cautious for those curious). Sure enough, I did.

My roommate suggested a free dating site, so I said, what have I got to lose? Initially, it seems to be a good investment of my time. A simple inquiry to one member led to extensive conversations (about 10 hours this weekend) via IM. There are a lot of common interests, including personality types and a passion for community volunteer work. We're going to get together sometime next weekend to hang out, and the following week with others looking to rebuild a floundering civic organization here in KC.

No real expectations, just a curiosity to meet someone with some similar interests, but refreshing just the same. This whole dating thing is pretty new to me. I mean, I was with the same person for more than seven years!

I like having the luxury of picking and choosing, and in no way feel some 'need' to be with someone. But, c'mon, who wouldn't prefer to have someone compatible with whom they can spend some fun time?

That's it for now. I like the occasional blogging, because writing is my release, just don't expect a daily diary (toy!). I might pop into chat from time to time for a short hello, because I like the people and the interaction. But those visits will be intermittent at best.

Ciao for now!