licksipsuckit's blog post - internet porn question

Saturday, January 4, 2014, 12:10:52 PM

lve been an avid lover of all things sexual for a very long time. lve had my fair share of all kinds of lovers, from sub to dom, masters, kinky to the just plain boring....but in the last few years, since the invent of cheap nasty unlimited internet porn, that has been filling guys heads with this imaginery sense that all women want to be treated like dirty arse dogs...to be throttled and humiliated at every meeting...or to treated them like a second rate citizen when they get their clothes off...is it just me, or did the human race take a dive for the worst when people started believing that strangling someone evokes feelings of want and wonder and sexual gratification???...
l love a good fuck as much as the next bloke...but when does it become right to think that sex changes who we are...l find fucking someone starts with building their trust...telling them when something really feels good, so they know what l really want...making the other person feel so damn good they want to wet their pants...or bust with an all consuming orgasm to be left in a heap feeling hot, fulfilled and wonderful...l fuck them so they want me to come back for more...
ld just like to know how you guys here feel about fucking women, or fucking prostitutes for that "special" kind of sex...would you treat a random women with respect...or would you want to treat her like the paid professionals you see on the net???

Comments

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voyeur6569 on 4-Jan-14 12:19:26

I treat women with respect at all times...I'm just old fashion... I love women

yogi362004 on 4-Jan-14 12:22:18

yep i must be ole fashioned also....

super4 on 4-Jan-14 12:23:01

respect the lad that's the way I was brought up

super4 on 4-Jan-14 12:23:09

lady even

000max on 4-Jan-14 12:28:11

I treat all my ladies with love. And I always have a part in my heart for the ones I sleep with

nakedgamez on 4-Jan-14 12:29:13

respectful is definately the way to be....

sweets70 on 4-Jan-14 12:32:21

I believe the proliferation of the Internet and porn promotess some guys who would normally be very meek and timid into "monsters". They can become anything they want and just hide there. Much like the mild mannered person who becomes a madman when he or she gets behind the wheel. I really wouldnt take anything too much to heart by anything said over the Internet babe. If a guy treats you right in person is all that really counts. And I feel that way about the women I meet as well. If they treat me well thats all that counts.

sweets70 on 4-Jan-14 12:35:09

That said, I do enjoy "talking dirty" to a woman but only if she likes that as well. There's a time and place for everything... Otherwise the relationship can get stagnant, boring and diminish over time.

lynskey on 4-Jan-14 12:40:21

I think it's the difference between fucking and making love,lix,because if you are good together out of bed you are good together in it.

licksipsuckit on 4-Jan-14 12:54:09

l fuck a lot of different men, some for many years, and lve started coming across dudes that think lm some unpaid hooker, that does all the nasty net stuff for free...lm sure they wouldn't treat their wives like that, and ld expect they'd work up to certain things, not just expect it straight up *lix*

Entropy20 on 4-Jan-14 13:35:51

I like old fashioned , gentle foreplay that builds up to something bouncier ...... nice sex , not horrible strangly sex.

overshort2 on 4-Jan-14 13:46:08

I am more towards old fashioned. I take care of her needs the way she wants and make sure a good time is had by both of us.

ClassicGentleman on 4-Jan-14 15:18:44

Well said, I couldn't agree more. I always try to be a gentleman when I'm talking to women on here or comment on their pics, etc.

luvs2bnaked2 on 4-Jan-14 17:06:03

I agree with you 100%. Every woman deserves to be treated with respect. Wheather she is a professional or a regular woman. I have always been thoughtful and caring with the women I've had sex with.

thirdlegedagain on 5-Jan-14 15:10:08

I believe that treating people with respect is part and parcel of being a decent person . All behavior should be fair in love and war!
I don't even understand how people get turned on by that creepy, violent fantasy stuff.

LOVEXXXPORN on 5-Jan-14 18:08:01

Always treat a lady with respect.With me its all about her and what she wants,after all she is in the drivers seat and I'll be totally satisfied when she is happy.

State_of_Shock on 7-Jan-14 0:20:58

I think porn has to be viewed in the same way you would watch an action movie or read a comic. Pure ficiton with characters acting out fantasies. I am also glad porn isn't real life as I couldn't keep up :P

Marky764 on 9-Jan-14 11:02:46

First, I would like to thank you for very kind remarks on my blog. As for the way people think and feel is a very complex matter. My personal feeling is that power, sex and all human desires never ever seem to be enough for the many. Always searching for more and something different. Personally, I do not pay for sex. I will not degrade anyone for my personal gratification. In essence, we all learn and live by examples. If I am offended by anything at all, I walk away because it may consume me. I am a man who has buried his faults with memory. I choose my happiness.

mike66au on 10-Jan-14 5:56:44

Very interesting and thought provoking blog. I agree that sex can be wild, passionate and raw but that doesn't mean either party has a licence to treat the other with disrespect. For me sex is as much if nit more about pleasuring my partner than my own gratification.

scotthorny on 20-Jan-14 8:36:31

Some people just like to treat others like shit because they are insecure arseholes. When you have sex, you lose all inhibitions, so the real person comes out. People who treat people like shit during sex .. stay away from them when their clothes are on also..

neknarf on 29-Jan-14 9:43:11

Mmm I treat my lady lovers with great respect. I believe in very long foreplay to make my lady completely relaxed and start to feel all gooy inside. I always start with a very senuos massage starting along the back an then working on the front. After that I srat the thrilling part of sucing an licking all over her an then finally spreading her crack an venturing up closer n closer to her honey to get the beautiful smell an sweet taste of her juices. It is only then, when she is ready do we start to fuc an boy it absolutely heaven to cum when she has an enormaous orgasm with both of us collapsing to savour that glorious moment. So in nut shell I adore women and want them to b in a fantastic mood for fucing so we can both enjoy that precious moment. This is my thoughts anyway.