licksipsuckit's blog post - live cam isnt what its cracked up to be

Wednesday, January 15, 2014, 12:37:32 AM

l did something today l never usually do, l live cammed with a person. lve resisted the temptation for many years. l dont even have a messenger of any type...and couldnt remember why, so curiousity got the better of me and l took the dive and watched. Thinking it cant hurt!
After a short while, l was taken in by the scene, my sensory system kicked in and while seeing them in the flesh, it was like being held on the other side of a screen while visiting a loved one in jail...so close, just a piece of glass holding us apart...but not being able to touch or smell them for real...l wanted to hold their hand and run my fingers through their hair, but couldnt. and it made me pretty sad, the frustration of not being able to touch them,then its like when l get to have sex, and the dude is finished and wants to go, and lm just half warmed up, too far to stop and not near being satisfied...being left in that hot and bothered state...frustrating and not a great feeling. then mix the two together...
l get asked all the time to cam and get on skype, and at no point does anyone ever really think of how they can make someone feel. most guys just want a free show after the 3rd line. theyre detached and only wanting to see some cheap thrill for 5 mins. not caring whether they see that person again. getting on cam to me is like being a circus animal or some sideshow freak...they want you to do the tricks and satisfy them, without any real gratification back, hope this helps some of you realise why l dont like to cam, l cant speak for how anyone else feels, just sharing my thoughts...*lix*

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freekforpussy on 15-Jan-14 1:53:48

Cam with me !

voyeur6569 on 15-Jan-14 2:09:29

Have been thinking of trying cams

bOObzman on 15-Jan-14 4:28:16

I understand how you feel Lix! xo

Entropy20 on 15-Jan-14 5:48:16

I have only ever seen three cam shows and that was only because they were really good friends .... I didnt actually find it sexy .... just nice to see them . I did a two minute cam show once .... sat in PJs and sunglasses , no idea what to do , couldnt get a hard-on and only two blokes tuned in ..... Never again LOL

Marky764 on 15-Jan-14 6:54:14

I can relate in ways. Hope to try and understand many guys go to free cam sites and get off on free shows daily. You're right, many are desensitized by way of feelings and attachment. There are boys and there are men. Welcome to the blue marble.

luvs2bnaked2 on 15-Jan-14 18:55:33

I agree with you Lix. There is nothing better than skin on skin.

TNBuilder on 15-Jan-14 23:11:34

Cam is nice, but better when you do it multiple times with the same person. At points, I have had a few from NN who I would cam with on a regular basis and that definitely made it better

hanson on 17-Jan-14 6:03:59

I like skype etc to chat, but i wouldn't expect a show from you or me just general sexy chat

aussiewanker on 13-Apr-14 9:51:33

I think the random cam thing is a bit weird, but enjoyed playing with an actual friend on Skype when she was away - it helps knowing what we both like, and relating it to things we'd shared previously.

Most fun on cam was with a hot young designer friend in Peru.... about 2 hours of great 'show n tell'.... but we were both dressed, and discussing a project.