livinghappy's blog post - Things are changing

I got thinking - at length actually - about a topic I consider somewhat less mundane than my last post. The place, whilst on a run. The topic, threesomes. I wasn't pondering a particular combination, mostly the general idea of having sex with more than one person at a time. That sets the scene.

From what I can tell you love or hate the idea, and fair enough. I've never been one to yearn in a grunting, beer swilling fashion for such activities, but have participated in several MMF threesomes, albeit a few years ago. Each was memorable in it's own way and I enjoyed every encounter.

At the time it was the pull of the experience and it's novelty. Maybe my age (that of a mid twenties male) was a large part of my mindset? In the years since my view has changed somewhat. I'm not engaged in the fantasy of similar adventures for the same reasons. Now, I look at the potential for another threesome as way of connecting with a couple on more of a personal level, far beyond the 'well, that was fun' and never see each other again experiences of few years back.

What am I trying to say?

Things change. In the case to a more considered and positive approach found with age and a great deal of thought. This is a good change and one which, eventually, will yield far better relationships and experiences.