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Once again you guys have been wanting to know what has happened & am I still having sex outside of our marriage?. Well the simple answer to that question is yes, lol. I realize I haven't posted a blog update for some time & so much has happened. Maybe I could gather a little group of you guys who I could share my recollections with & discuss, if you like? Just a thought. You could private mail me if this is your thing & it gives me a measure of interest. The only person who I know that knows I do this is my Hubby, so it is one big secret for obvious reasons. Being able to share it on here with you & maybe chat about it is good for me, stops me bottling it all up & it also helps me make sense of it all too. If you guys are turned on by it too, then great! Now I have images in my mind of strapping males with erections!!!! Lol.
Some time has passed since that first meeting but I still think about it now!
Afterwards my Hubby & I couldn't stop thinking about it, even though I thought I would be able too.
I think he felt smug to, me the hesitant one, who had willingly let a stranger remove her panties & bring her to orgasm & then greedily fellate him.
He was right & I kept replaying it in my head, making sense of me this respectable married lady meeting up with a stranger just like an escort might do.
It excited me, in a way I never expected it too & I also enjoyed the slutty aspect to it too, I found it very liberating & I knew I wanted more & so did Hubby.
Fortunately Paul wanted more too, as I received a very nice email from him stating so too. I read the email over & over.
I knew Hubby was going to be the main contact for arranging the meets, that's the way we agreed for it to work.
When agreeing a meet, it's a bit like setting up a contract, I know it doesn't sound very sexy but that is what you are doing
What we, or should that be, Hubby realized was that trust was key to any of this working & the needs of all players had to be met, so you have to state what you want from this & what you are offering in return. From Hubby's point of view to put it bluntly, he wanted to watch me have sex with another guy & to take photographs of the event, so the guy has to be ok with Hubby being present & open to him being photographed having sex. The guy may be married, so this is quite a risk he is taking, so as part of that contract, we promise that the pics are for our pleasure only & if the pics are shared no facial features will appear. We give our word on that, this is where the trust is key. Naturally the guy in return wants to know what he is getting, lol. Just to let you know what I was offering at the start, I know some of you guys will want to know this. Hubby's "advert" for me was along the lines of......
Horny married lady seeking a confident mature guy to enjoy bedroom fun. Her limits are bare oral, which she adores. No penetrative sex or anal. Within those limits she will give you her body for your enjoyment & will seek her enjoyment in return. When I read those lines they read like an escort advertising for business. Other than doing this for pleasure & not for financial reward I had to agree that is exactly what I was agreeing to do, so no point pretending any other.
Anyway, I'm rambling, lol
I did meet Paul again after about a 5 week wait, which seemed like an eternity.
At this point I need to explain that the reason we decided not to offer full penetrative sex was that since this was a very new confusing but exciting sexual adventure for us both, we felt that we should reserve full sex just for ourselves, keeping it special.
Ok we were a bit naive
This rule was still in place by meet number 3
Looking back on that meet though without knowing it, we were all thinking the same thing.
I remember being so sexed up & thinking to myself I wish he'd drill me with that, lol.
Paul remembers being so tempted to just push it up what was a very wet pussy & Hubby wanting the same too, lol.
All thinking the same but still playing by the rules, lol
Needless to say the rules had changed by meet 4 but there was a twist!