mehotdee's blog post - Concern of a Middle-Aged Exhibitionist

Thursday, January 24, 2013, 9:22:53 PM

OK, so I am a 40+ year old (yuck!) but don't usually feel it. I have been an exhibitionist since my college days and have always enjoyed flashing, posting pics, playing outdoors in various stages of undress, bending over in stores while wearing short skirts, doing the old see through shirt with the pizza delivery guy, camming, etc etc.

When you are young and do that stuff, people chalk it up as youthful indulgence. But when you are a middle-aged parent, working professional, married and living in suburbia, is it still acceptable? And if so, when do you stop?

I LOVE playing and showing off and I still get a lot of great comments from wonderful people, both male and female. I still flash truckers and listen to their comments on the CB radio. I still get smiles when people "catch" me taking outdoor nude photos or "accidentally" having my ass hang out when I bend over in a short dress. And certainly the great folks on sites like this always make you feel good and inflate your ego a bit (Love you all)

But that internal clock is ticking and I worry that at some point I will look foolish flashing my less than perfect body or my boobs that gravity has affected over the years. When, if ever, does it simply become ridiculous to do this stuff? Is there a natural cutoff?

I think a website like this is a perfect venue to ask a question like this because if you are on here, you are a voyeur, an exhibitionist or both. And of course the age ranges are well represented. I know the answer is probably that it is a personal decision based on each individual's desire. But I would love to know what people's thoughts are on "older" people putting it all out there with the public displays like I described. ot just posting pics, but all phases of exhibitionism.

I have always told myself that I will keep showing off as long as there is someone willing to look LOL. Not sure that is the best answer and I would hope I realize the day when I am just making a fool of myself, but would love to hear other's thoughts on this whether you are young, middle aged or older.

Now if you will excuse me, I have to go get topless for the pizza boy, LOL

Comments

Others Have Said:

tight_wet_lips on 24-Jan-13 22:24:57

we can no longer show off in public due to the laws.

BuxomXhunter on 25-Jan-13 2:07:28

I am 58 and I know ladies in their 60s still doing strutting their stuff, doing their thing, sharing their fun. I don't know, it is a question I have asked myself not about showing but looking, chasing, hoping. I wouldn't worry about it, just enjoy your life and if others enjoy it along with you, even better. When you get to that place it isn't fun any more you will know. Until then just do what you enjoying doing, wink xxx.

cj3669 on 28-Jan-13 15:46:47

I don't think that you will ever find a time when there aren't men & women who want to see your sexy body. People's tastes change and NN is a prime example of people willing to express what they think is truly attractive without the constraints of society & what others may think of them. I am around your age. When I was 18, I thought 18 yr olds were hot & that 25 was over the hill. When I was 30, I was attracted to 30 yr olds & thought 18 yr olds were just kids. Now in my 40's, I find 40'something year old women to be the most attractive age. Just keep enjoying life. Trust me, there are plenty of others enjoying watching you.

cliffiey55 on 9-Feb-15 4:30:52

In my opinion, the cut off time for showing off you body is when you can no longer do it. Until that time there will always be someone who will be willing to look at your body. I hope I will still be there to look.

mikenj45 on 18-Jun-15 21:54:25

I think you should continue to show of until its no longer any fun for you!! So have a great time, and I hope I get to see you down the road.

jamiexysays on 28-Sep-15 23:43:46

Dee you are still very young compared with me as I am nearly 65. I find the female body of any age such a turn on that I wouldn't care if you were flashing in your 80's because you would still look erotic and desirable.
I think it is such a shame that there are so few women in later years who perform on cam sites such as Chaturbate. Whenever an older woman appears I am much more excited by them as they are such a rarity. The most erotic thing for me about a woman is whether she is horny and sexually needy and receptive. A horny mature woman is far more desirable than a young model girl who has no desire for intimacy. Another great turn on is your ability to converse on such an expressive and articulate level. You can be sure that we lusty sex starved males will be lapping up your naked charms for as long as you are willing to expose them, XXX