Firstly, I'm jay. I've been married for a short while now. Unfortunately we have different impressions of what going to bed means. I use nn a fair bit and not just as a relief tool (we all know there are some very sexy people here) but also as a way of general entertainment. I enjoy chatting to those that cross my path and those whos paths I cross (usually this way round but hey I'm a guy). My likes vary from sexy outfits to tattoos to women who take control. Im generally shy in my day to day life but there is something about this site that makes people run and jump out of the closet, me included. I haven't uploaded many pics mainly because I want to see pictures of you all and not myself, so let me know if you have any requests and I'll most deffinately get back to you.