oooos4all's blog post - Profile pics

We find it odd when we try to hook up with people we find interesting that the pictures that are posted and even the ones they send are so out of date. We undersaqnd that some people post old pics. We don't have any of the male pics posted but if we are interested enough to send pics for possible friendship we send reasonably recent couple pics. After all if we are to meet some one, it's a mood killer to get there and find out that all the pics are 10yrs and 100lbs ago.

We chose the people we meet more on personality than by physical beauty, but it gives the impression of fraud when the truth is revealed. If you are going so far as to get to know us and set up a meeting, dishonesty regarding your pics or weight or age discredits anything else you have told us. If we know the truth to start with those types of thing won't matter. Afterall clean willing and fun are the major considerations.If we click it is because we feel comfortable.

If misled we usually bail. How could we trust you?

On the other side of it. If we say we do or don't play a certain way and that's what you actually want, don't try to change our mind when we get there. Believe me there is nothing you can say or do that would have any swaying power over how we feel about each other and our personal rules with each other. We will tell you upfront. We expect the same. If we click great but if we don't we don't. It won't change ,just because we met wonderful you!