rubensredd's blog post - The Bears (not Chicago)

Sunday, February 3, 2013, 1:47:22 AM

So here is the story about MY teddy bear:
About 9years ago my husband and I separated. It was Valentine's day (the day he asked me to marry him) and I was alone for the 1st time in several years. I received 1 dozen red roses at work (the note on the card read simply "to my heart thief"

anonymously. That night my best friend showed up at my door with a cheesy heart shaped box of chocolates and a smile on his face. The words he spoke were life changing......."so, did you get my flowers?"
That stupid teddy bear (I am NOT a teddy bear kind of girl) has been with me through thick and thin. He has been loved on, tossed around, chewed on by doggies....and finally passed on.
I have the REAL Bear that gave me that bear now. I get to sleep with the real bear every night. That "friend" became The Bear, the love of my life. So Teddy has now been passed on....to someone that needs a piece of me, a piece of good luck and a piece of comfort. I can't be with you Kricket...but you got the next best thing. I hope you know that.
Holding behind his back was the softest teddy bear I have ever felt. He handed it to me and said..."when you are sad, alone, thinking of me, or just want a cuddle...this might help."

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free2bladyV on 3-Feb-13 1:59:19

wish everyone had a 'teddy bear' :) Thanks for sharing.

boxseat on 3-Feb-13 2:36:03

You're a real sweetheart rubes, krick is so lucky to have you in her court!

rubensredd on 3-Feb-13 2:49:01

really I am a cold hearted bitch....her and Dum just happen to sneek into the warm corner of my heart...fucktards...I really don't like them ;)

tight_wet_lips on 3-Feb-13 4:02:34

Rubes, you freaking bish! lol. How dare you be so sweet! We all need bears like that.

rubensredd on 3-Feb-13 5:10:34

thanks TWL...you made me giggle....I needed a giggle

rubensredd on 3-Feb-13 5:12:08

FFS...I miss my bear and I miss my friend...I fucking hate change.

kricket187 on 3-Feb-13 10:46:08

I miss my Ruben. Teddy is a poor substitute, but I snuggle him daily, and the poor thing has to be water logged with all my tears he's caught. Love you, Ruben.

whokens on 3-Feb-13 16:51:50

thank you for sharing