my daugher just came down stairs--her boyfriend was asleep upstair. she told us that she had picked up from the airport and he told her that he had gotten drunk (he is an alcholic) while out of town on a business trip met a girl in the bar, she took him back to her room and they fucked. She is being very strong (she knew he was an alcholic) but i know that this is really hurting her. and i am not sure if it was the fucking or the drinking (she has really been working hard to keep him sober) that hurt her more. they have been going together for two plus years now and she has so much invested in him and i do not know what this cheating is going to do to the relationship.
parenting is just never over.
