sammiealice's blog post - it is so different

Wednesday, January 30, 2013, 3:36:57 AM

hubby is now home when i get home from work. we are eating dinner early--all the things i wanted. but it has been so long since we have done this, i really don't know how to relate anymore. we sit in the living room and sort of don't communicate. i think that maybe it is time we started to plan something to reconnect. daughter is home so it is not like we can reconnect in bed. but i think that we need to work on it. i sometimes think that we must always work on our marriages. it is not something that just happens.

i am not worried, just sharing some thoughts.

xxxxxxx to all

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bodymaster4u2 on 30-Jan-13 3:56:53

you are trying way too hard......relax my dear and enjoy the moments .......I was always looking ahead now I wish I had some of those moments back....

tight_wet_lips on 30-Jan-13 6:44:16

Do you think it may be time for counseling?

Whispermyname on 30-Jan-13 6:53:15

Yes what Body says Sammie....but I do know where you are coming from..don't overthink things it's just familiarity I think xxx

dewberry on 30-Jan-13 22:34:27

Hmm x I can relate to that Sammie x x I have tried but nothing changes so I learn to accept that its what its gonna be x thank god for nn it keeps me alive x

Hick Chick Deluxe on 30-Jan-13 23:27:26

Sammie, I went to college with a woman from Fort Canpbell who was married to a miltary Man and he was in the Middle east for a year. She said it was like they had to learn each other all over again. The love was still there, but they both changed over the year and kinda had to get to know each other again. She said they picked out things he and her liked and made projects out of them they both could work together on. They both loved cooking and she said they would surf the net for wild and delicious dishes and got into cooking them together. She said just finding stuff like that got them reaquainted. Not that ya have to cook but fun hobbies or projects might be something to do. Just saying......

supersnogger on 31-Jan-13 11:23:26

Dont be worried we all go thru phases of this in life--- when you least expect it all will come right again if you work at it. Just talk to him...maybe he feels the same way as you do... just some random thoughts to help you too xx hugs xx