and it is about birht control and the side effects. i know that later there will be a class action law suit for birth control inviting people to join and make a lawyer lots of money. possible side effect are horrible---having a baby is also dangerous. sometimes we forget about the risk of childbearing and that what we do is really deciding which is the more acceptable risk.
hubby and i used condoms for 40 years. hot warm spurtting cock was something i never had until childbearing was over. if i had to do it overagain, i would still use condoms but, when we decided no more children 20 years ago, hubby would have frozen some sperm (would they have let me help collect) and gotten the snippy and wet pussy and hard cock and bareback sex would have become part of our loving.