stickguy8's blog post - First Post

First blog post and what to say...NN is a great site. I know I know, it sounds like I'm just sucking up to the site but its true. The site is full of people like me that like to look and be seen. People who do not look at sex and sexuality as a means to control another person or a limit to place upon ourselves.

I come from a fairly conservative background. Its not that sex or nudity were considered bad, it more like we never talked about such things and were brought up to be stereotypically "good" kids. I've never truly identified with that upbringing.

Its a small surprise then that as I got older I began to experiment. I enjoy sexuality, and obviously I enjoy sex. What has come to surprise me over the years is that I have moved away from my strict monogamous/celibate until marriage point of view to that point that I have had several threesums, enjoy using the site to satisfy some of my voyeuristic and exhibitionistic urges, and find myself extremely curious about the swinging lifestyle.

In later posts I'll probably talk about all those experiences and my views and such. I do not want to sound pompous about this blog but I hope I'll learn something about myself through this and hope I can get some feedback about what direction to go next in the blog as well as hear what others think/feel/have experienced as I go along.

I hope you guys will check back in and please feel free to comment anytime!