I'm a fairly average guy in my 50s but my brain still thinks I'm in my 20s only with a lot more experience. I get on just as well with my friends' 30 year old kids as i do with my friends. My daughters' friends tell them they think I'm cool and while that's not something I aspire to, I'd be lying if i didn't say it was a boost to my ego. I guess I just am who I am. I've never believed there was a certain way to think or act as you get more experienced in life and I suppose the fact that I love riding my motorbike a little too fast is testament to that. I take people as i find them. Each of us is searching but most of us dont know what we are searching for. If you've re-invented yourself here thats a little sad....but its cool. You're entitled to be the person you want to be. Your personality and true self will show through anyway. Life's still an amazing adventure. Just enjoy it and smile. Ok this has to be boring you by now , so you have done well getting this far. Or maybe you skipped to the end to see how the story finishes....naughty. This isn't the end though....just the beginning :)