Hi everybody,

sorry about the tumbleweeds building up. i'll clear them out soon

i've been trying to get things done, and i find when i log into nn, i don't get as much done in the real world as i want. so my routine has become get home from work, tidy and sort and organise and clean and have dinner. then when everything is done, then i consider logging into nn. typically though it's so late at night and so past my bedtime, i just read my friends blogs without logging in to chat and then move on to other things. i've tried to hang out in chat a bit this weekend but after tomorrow i need to go back to getting things done for a bit. i do respond to email, and i'm often logged into my im clients while i'm cleaning so i do get messages if you wanted to contact me for some reason.

so what's keeping me busy? i've been cleaning and tidying and rearranging and sorting and purging and whilst the house looks like a bomb hit it at the moment, soon all the stuff is going to find its new home and be organised and tidy. i've purged so much stuff. it's great. i've got heaps of empty plastic tubs around now (i keep things in plastic tubs because they stack and are movable easily). i've been going through boxes of old paperwork and just throwing out things i didnt need. i threw out my porn collection that i've carried everywhere since i was 12? (lol) i kept some of the older playboys and penthouses. ones that had celebs or someone important within. and one of the very first mags (some random uk mag) i can remember getting (and which i can blame for some specific likes that continue to this day). but all the mags and contact mags my ex and i bought together - they're gone. all the random purchased from servos as a teenager - gone. every computer magazine in the house older than 6 months - gone. my tax records from the 90s - gone. so much paperwork - gone. i've emptied wardrobes and tubs and boxes that haven't moved in years. i've sorted and collated and put X with X and Y with Y and Z with Z, instead of the ZX it was before (and now i find Y). it's doing wonders for making me feel better. the house isn't looking as divey which is helping a lot, and i know that once i finish sorting and tidying (which i really should have finished by now (and am not doing because of writing this blog post )). i've got less stuff, so its easier to store. i havent limited myself to throwing paperwork either. i'm taking the opportunity to purge heaps of belongings. just throwing things out. old magazines i figured i'd want one day - lots of them are going. extra computer cables. extra bits and pieces. lots of plastic containers i haven't touched in years. lots of kitchen stuff i haven't touched in years. anything i can think of that can go i'm trying to get gone. tonight i gave about 60? cds to friends of mine. they're bands i know they'll like, and i never listen to cds anymore (everything has been ripped to mp3) so why not give them away. my random collection of role playing game related books i've had since highschool - they've gone to a friend who has a huge archival library of games. i attended a swapmeet the other weekend and sold heaps of stuff. i didnt make that much money because i priced tshirts at $2 each but i paid for the day and some random sneaker and Jordan related purchases so i was happy. and it gave me less to take home, and more space.

so i still kinda want to move now, if i could afford to, but for the moment at least i'm happy/happier. i figure i'll get a housemate, save some money and then plan to move maybe. i did something i felt was quite grown up last weekend, and something i've never done before - i went and bought furniture. i can't actually remember doing that for me before. i got a bookshelf, a tv unit, and a wire rack/shelving thing. i was trying to remember where most of my furniture has come from and mostly i've lived with people who had it already, or had hand me down furniture. this is the first time i can remember really buying stuff myself. it's not much but i guess it's a start. my RL friends are most impressed with me and have commented that they're so proud i'm growing up and was able to do that by myself lol guess i had to start sometime right? (go read my profile and see my age if you dont understand why it's funny *sigh*) i don't yet qualify as a responsible adult, but small steps lol

besides cleaning/sorting/organising i've:

* prepared for swapmeet. that took a few nights to find everything and put it in bags and price it and all that kind of thing. i went in with several friends and had the biggest group of tables there i think. i dont want to say too much about it because its kinda identifiable, although if you're on here and know me in RL then you may as well say something to me because you should know already i wont care if my friends know this side of me. just don't identify me on the internets. but anyway, it was a good day, i got some new jordans.

* i've been to canberra for work twice for a total of 3 days. it's seems a pretty boring place but in its defence i was working in offices and only really saw a small shopping centre and a bt of the city centre. luckily i worked out i knew someone there so caught up with him for dinner the night i had to stay over. it was better than eating in the hotel alone thats for sure. when people heard i was going to canberra the common question was "will you bring me back some porn?" (because canberra has legal x rated films whereas the rest of the country does not). i always laugh and think to myself that they mustn't know the internet very well because it provides all the porn one (or two or three or more) could possibly want.luckily i haven't yet been caught up in the qantas dramas but i expect i will be. i generally prefer flying qantas but they are getting more and more expensive, and this fiasco isn't going to help things. it's annoying.

* being making vodka infusions. so far i have made honeycomb vodka and chocolate vodka. the honeycomb was a success the first time and is deliciously thick and honeycomby. it'll be really nice in winter warmed up. it's super sweet (like honeycomb) and you can't taste the vodka really anymore. the chocolate on the other hand has been a bit more problematic, but i think i have it now. it needs more filtering, and there's definitely a vodka aftertaste, but it's pretty chocolaty at the moment. i'm not sure what to try next. i was thinking of lime, but i can buy that premade already and i wanted to try something i couldn't buy as easily.

* work has been busy apart from canberra. things going wrong and we're always fighting fires. i found out at the last minute that i cant use my long service leave like annual leave. i cant take it in more than 3 chunks. that means at least a few weeks breaks at a time really. that's a little annoying. i had planned to use it to just add 40 days to my annual leave and just use them that way.

* had several nights of drinking at polly. as much as i love the place it's so bad for my wallet when i go there. i really enjoy drinking there and can spend all night doing so, but wow that becomes an expensive night if i do that. i was there last night and as we were leaving we went to look at some graffiti i had spotted earlier, and nearly found ourselves caught up in some idiots fighting with other idiots. these kids who cant handle their alcohol (they were younger than me therefore they're "kids" ) ruin it for those who can. i had probably drunk more than any of them involved but yet i can still be polite and able to walk properly. it was a lot quieter out than i expected actually. kinda surprised. i guess everyone was saving themselves for the cup today.

* discovered that a good friend of mine has finally decided to socialise with others and is probably on his way to becoming an accomplished Dom (i think thats the right word). i always knew he liked girls but they were just inconvenient at most times for him. now they're not. it's still going to be difficult explaining this to other friends - oh yes he likes girls, but only ones he can tie up and cane lol anyway, i was happy for him. it's via another site that i've got an account on too, but it's more fetish based than here, and i'm less specific fetish based than he is. oh he needs a bunny who i assume is the one being tied?

* purchased NBA Jam On Fire Edition on xbox, and i'm level 21 does anyone play xbox live and want to add me? i need more multi player friends. it's just like the original nba jam but all the players and uniforms are updated. i really enjoy it.



i think that's about it, and there's probably enough to bore everyone so i'll call it a night. can't believe christmas is approaching so fast i need more time.

peace

Well first the good news. the wicked bitch is dead. no sorry, i meant the housemate has moved out.

the bad news is that as expected it was a drama and has cost me money, but i decided that verses him staying any longer, the money was worth it. i'll deal with it somehow. i have to now get busy and clean his room properly and show the landlord that the stump? on that side seems to be giving way. there's certainly a depression in that corner of the room. and then clean the house, decontaminate his room, advertise, find, select and move in a new housemate. that's all going to take time. hopefully the money its costing me will be a good incentive to keep working on it.

having said that i'm already realising the benefits of living by myself again. the musics up, and when i was getting dressed i worked out that every time i'm home has essentially become pants optional time lol i've emptied the fridge and cupboards of all the housemates expired crap and there's heaps more room now. he took with him his "far too small but he thought it was cool" dish rack, and luckily he hadn't thrown out the old one so its back. of course now for one person its huge. i don't make many dirty dishes generally. i don't cook, so it's typically delivery or eat out or prepackaged meals i buy on the way home. a couple of utensils, a plate here and there, and glasses for my drinking.

in other news, the last couple of weeks were pretty good but it had to crash at some point i guess. the crash was out of nowhere (i thought) and it blindsided me a bit, and that combined with other things made me think some time off from the world in general was probably a good idea. hell its always a good idea where i'm concerned but this time it seemed appropriate. i don't think i'm better or ok or anything really that i can define, but i do know that i'm ecstatic about the housemate going can you tell? if i ever let another one onto the lease shoot me please.

i did hear some news on the weekend that might affect how convenient i see collingwood in 18 months time. rental prices are just getting so ballistic though that i don't see many options being affordable apart from moving further away from the city. i enjoy melbourne a lot because of where i live and the amenities? the shops and bars i have access too. speaking of bars, i hit polly last night and really was quite restrained i thought. nearly 3 hours. i could have gone longer but my friend wanted to be sober enough to drive by this afternoon and frankly he's a piker lol he can drink he was just piking. anyway i remembered to keep the bill. i'll just list mine for the night

Mojito
Large Sticky Kitten (x2)
At The Drive In x2
Medos Vodka shot x2
Amaretto Sour (Apple)

i thought we were well behaved really for that little. quite amusingly there was a (i assumed) lesbian couple dating seated at the bar next to myself and my mate. i'm sure it's just wishful thinking on my part and perhaps the alcohol affecting my memory, but one was almost up to alex28s quality. the other was kinda boyish in tight white tshirt and jeans, but still quite hot imho. together as a couple well i joked with my friend when they left that the movie rights to the evenings later activities would probably be worth a lot on the internet lol they were from docklands and not used to coming to fitzroy and not used to absinthe (which my friend drinks almost exclusively) and not used to the range of cocktails that polly offers, but seemed to have a good night. they both kissed us on the cheek as they left which was a bit surprising we thought, and then the bargirl mentioned at the end of our night that they had drunk more than us (bill wise anyway) by the time they left which kinda explains it a bit more. during the conversation (i know some of the staff at polly well now) it came up that she's never seen me drunk, and never thought she had to serve me water (which i thought was a good thing). for people not in victoria, the law forces bartenders to do that after someones had too many drinks. its a bad idea ordering too many 'doubles' in a row because of this. stick to ordering two regular drinks each time. anyway, they made for amusing barside companions.

before that, we went to a photo expo being held for the fetish expo that is coming up next weekend in fitzroy. is anyone going? i'm intending to go, even though i know almost everything there is not going to be my thing. some of the things there i think are definitely not my thing but hey it'll be interesting i'm sure. anyway the photo exhibition was good too. quite a few photos up. not everything to my taste, but some quite artistic ones. we joked about how some of our friends should enter the competition next year. one guy has ready access to a big gay bear who i'm sure would love the idea, and generally wouldn't have a problem with entering nor with the topic matter. the other guy however, we suspect his head would spin around and he wouldn't know where to look. we might suggest it anyway. his photo skills are awesome and surely this is good for portfolio work?

well there's more good news - the landlord just came to collect rent and told me to not worry about the carpet. he has more he can cut up and lay, and he'll fill the holes in the wall. nothing he can do about the lean in the corner without me moving out and major work done on the house, so we'll just see how we go until the house falls down which was always my original plan.

finally, if you haven't seen this yet, it's an amusing cutup of nigella talking about cooking. probably not safe for work or polite ears


have a good week everybody. apologies for the essay.

i might see how long i can take a break for. if i log in, i'll prob just check my friends pics and blogs and log out again.

sorry and apologies for being sudden.



ps - based on the typical "leave" around here, it'll prob be days/weeks rather than months/years again

gday all,

thought i should post before the tumbleweeds start to gather too high. the summary of the last few weeks is that i was sick with manflu for most of two weeks, and then barely got better before i had to go to sydney for a few days (work trip). now about 4 weeks later i'm starting to feel human again. since it was manflu, of course i nearly died daily. it was awful. i had three days off work, then a half day at work before i felt great on the friday. then by tuesday, my throat was sore again, and by thursday i shouldn't have been at work. so i went home at lunch, spent 3hrs at the doctors to be told "yes you're sick go straight home do not go to work tomorrow" (which funnily enough was what the entire office had to say as well). it was a bit annoying having a round 2 of manflu as i had really taken it easy and tried to get better the first week. i even cancelled activities and was religiously making sure i overdosed on vitamin c pills and "goawayflu" pills and mega vitamins and all that stuff. i expected to turn orange before i got better. if you noticed i was absent those weeks it was because i was going to bed early as part of my get better routine.


then on thursday morning (just gone) it was off to sydney for a work trip. the trip went surprisingly well - i love it when planning actually works. no surprises. no sudden problems. everything just worked how it should. i ended up with thursday afternoon off, and friday afternoon off (although due to timing that had been expected). Friday went excellently though as the server guys i was working with (we both had the same client) took me along for their mostly regular long friday liquid lunch at the pyrmont bridge hotel overlooking cockle bay. after probably too many beers to encourage proper working, they told me my job was done, and off i went to a friends house for more drinking (scotch this time). he's just quit his high paying job, got paid a large lump sum for his untaken holiday pay, and starts at his next high paying (compared to mine anyway) job in a few weeks. the result of all that was that him and his wife were quite happy and on top of the world and there was much drinking and eating and laughter. also good was that there was a mutual friend there who a few years ago decided he wanted to kill me. mostly paranoid delusions we (the mutual friends and i) thought but still not really someone to take lightly. we move in similar circles and it was a matter of time before we bumped into each other. anyway, at some point in the last two years he's decided i'm ok again, so when i asked if we had a problem still he was all fine and today even sent me a friend invite on fb so that's good that's resolved. it was third hand bullshit he'd heard about me which simply wasn't true and i have no idea who might have spread such bullshit, but the mutual friends knew it was, i knew it was - i guess i just had to wait for him to work it out. it was good to know i don't have to worry about him anymore anyway. at least not till the next time his paranoia gets the better of him. i consider his wife's sister family, and his best mates are also my mates, and his brother-in-law through marriage is one of my oldest mates. it was really awkward for everyone while he was angry.

from there it was back to the hotel to get my bags before catching up with an old friend and her bf at their apartment in kings cross where we polished off the bottle of honey vodka that i'd bought with me from melbourne. it was a good night (what i remember) we just sat outside on the roof top garden and caught up on news and gossiped and swap notes. she's most intrigued by my posting on here - i suspect there's some wanting to live vicariously as she would never ever (at least to my knowledge) allow photos of herself to be taken. she's a high flying suited executive now for a very respectable firm, and the potential risks i'm sure would scare her off. i worry that associating with me is bad for her work so allowing naked pics of herself on the net i just cant see happening. it was quite funny - i could tell she had questions she wanted to ask, but she's known me since we were 14 and she was a bit embarrassed i think at asking me some of those questions. as some of you know i'm pretty open so tried to encourage her to ask what she wanted, but there were lots of pauses while she thought of ways to make the questions more generalist instead of directly about me. she's most amused by the waxing idea and wants me to go to sydney just so she can go along with me to get it done. i said she just wants to hear me cry with pain, which she agreed she does, but also she wants to go i think for the vicarious thing. the exhibitionist part of me thinks/hopes she'll then want to see the results, but i doubt she'd ask to see. it'd feel a bit odd anyway.

saturday morning we were up way too early - she was off to vietnam for a bon voyage (of someone else) party and i caught up with another old friend and his wife and their two kids. i was surprised to see her as she's had some serious mental health issues and i know my friend is considering taking the kids and separating from her. it is really complicated and messy, but that's actually the best option for the kids concerned. when mums healthy she's fine (if highly strung). when she's not healthy, it affects the kids. but this day she seemed fine and everything was good and the kids ran around and weren't too stressing and everyone was all smiles. we walked around the pyrmont bridge area, had some lunch in chinatown and then i caught a cab out to the airport and flew home again.

apart from that trip to sydney, i have no exciting news because mostly i've been sick and in bed and my bedroom is boring, and i've had the lights off and been sleeping as best i can with a cat who can't get comfortable and who likes to sleep on my ribs if it has a choice or if it thinks i'm asleep. actually that's news. the dreaded house-mate is finally leaving and not just saying he will this time. he's actually going. stuff left today. so i need to quickly decide if i can afford the place by myself (i can't and have a life) or if i need a house mate (well i don't want a house-mate, but i need one). so does any one out there need a largish bedroom in a dive house that's close to everything in collingwood and fitzroy? the room is at the front of the house, with secure window. if you're quick, i can not disconnect the foxtel. the internet (wireless or cable) is fast though i know how to use it so if you're a torrent fiend we'll have to work something out. i'm pretty open to most people and their lifestyles. do what thou wilt but don't bother me with it. the house is fully furnished. big washing machine. good hot water supply. um... what else? guess i'll have to work it out and re-advertise soon anyway. unfortunately that means the cat will be going too. i prefer the cat over the house-mate. says less stupid things less often.


other random bits of boring news...

* i upgraded the computer again before i got sick. a new video card means prettier games and more monitors. my wall of monitors is approaching. now i just need a bigger desk. i'll probably have to put that plan on hold till i find a new housemate.

* i added more RAM recently too. that was probably after the last update. i didn't need the RAM really but it was cheap and in front of me and i have poor impulse control. and now i have many more programs open because i forget to close them.

* i don't think i've gotten any new sneakers recently. i did order a pair of Jordan5(black/silver) but they haven't arrived yet. i did get a pair of BW(mineral blue) but i think that was prior to last update. not sure. it gets a bit hard to keep track of (and yes i realise how bad that sounds as i write it lol) i don't feel like i've bought any new sneakers recently anyway.

* i've been playing a lot of steam games. the summer sale and then the humble indie bundle gave me enough games to play for ages now. i also found some zombie games i enjoy - "red nation" being the current favourite. its pretty pointless. simply killing zombies until they over run you, but i enjoy it anyway. if anyone wants to play multiplayer steam games, then drop me a line.

* i've just done 10 years at the same job, so now entitled to long service leave of 9 weeks. all plans for that are also on hold till i find a new housemate


i think that's everything. it'll probably look like a wall of text again when i submit it

peace

so i thought it was about time i added an update before this blog turned into nothing but complaints. the longer I'm on here (and paying attention) the more i discover there's things wrong with nn. it's probably an infrastructure thing. it's much easier with hind site to say the site should have used product x as a the base, or this option should have been thought of, but these kind of sites tend to grow organically and this things become a lot harder to fix over time. making little changes becomes a big deal and so things are left to stagnate. I've seen more complaints in others blog posts and comments appearing. makes me concerned that a) I've put down money for too long (which also broke my long standing rule of not paying for porn) and b) that when my premium is up, will i continue to use the site? i want to continue, but some of the issues are already putting me off and I'm barely a month into my premium. anyway...


it's been a good weekend i guess. i have had massive problems sleeping the last few weeks and its been getting to me so i had Friday off work primarily "to sleep". my problem has been not falling asleep, and then falling asleep 10 Min's after the alarm goes off. if i do get to sleep, it's only for a few hours at a time. I'm back to taking pills to sleep, and they only really result in the few hours at a time sleep pattern. once i wake up i really need to take pills to get back to sleep again, but i also don't want to take them too shortly before I'm supposed to wake up because I'm also trying to stay employed and so i do need to get to work more often than not. work is quite understanding of my health issues, they really are, but it makes life difficult for my co worker and i don't like doing that. it's not his fault - he shouldn't have to work harder just because I'm unwell. anyway, I've tried to sleep a lot over the weekend, and have been online a bit less. i keep making friends with people in the wrong timezones and so i like to keep chatting with them and that encourages me to stay up to see them.


I've chatted lots over the weekend, and the week. i don't know if its good or bad some days lol i kinda started paying attention to nn more to get some cyber or cam partners. I'm male, and I've been single a while now - there's nothing really to defend myself on that regard. but because, in my opinion, the chat rooms are boring when there's nothing but "wanna cam" adverts, and because i believed that showing i was actually a live normal human male might be to my benefit, i started to chat and joke about in-pit (between my spamming for chat partners). as a result, i met people and made friends. some nice people. people who i enjoy talking too because i value their insights and their thoughts. and a few who are just funny and make me laugh and make it easy for me to bounce jokes off. people who if i ever got to travel around I'd like to meet, for dinner or drinks mostly. anything but nudity related i guess. once i start to talk to people regularly, i stop looking at their pics. it feels odd. you're supposed to see people naked AFTER getting to know someone, not before. i read their profiles because my memory is shit house, like really bad, and i need the refreshers to help my head sort out who I'm talking to. the people who change their names, and the people who have names similar to each other really do my head in. i can eventually sort it out but it's going to take me a lot of practice and repetitive behaviour to sort it out completely. anyway, the point of this was that because I'm now so busy chatitng away with people and being friendly and normal, the horny side of me is missing out, and its starting to remind me that it wants some more attention lol 1st world problems. not sure what to do about that balance for the moment. there's people I'd like to have a more deeper relationship with, but of them, some are obviously deeply involved with others, some aren't into men at all and others just don't seem to notice i exist, and mostly they're in other countries and no matter how good the connection seems to be the chances of things ever working out are slim to none, and its not fair to them or to me to consider pursuing things. and i don't really like strangers. i like people i know. i like familiarity. i like comfortableness with the other person. i prefer getting to know people, but then i feel too embarrassed to mention that I'm there that night because I'm horny. so basically there's lots of opposites calling me in each direction and it's confusing me at the moment. don't know what to do about that.


apart from chatting this weekend, i went out shopping and came home with more Nike's and some tshirts. nothing exciting. I'll have new Jordan's arrive next week. not really my favourite J's ever, but i like the shoe, and the colourway is tolerable, and they're cheap (to me) but rare so it'll be good to thrash them and upset the collectors who want to put them up on shelves. for those who don't know, i have a lot of Nike and Jordan sneakers. i don't like to say i collect, because i don't feel that i do, but i have a lot more than most people. it's definitely not a fetish. there's no sexual enjoyment from it. i don't even particularly like feet. it's just a way of me reliving my youth i think. I've had an excessive amount of sneakers since the 90s - it's just something i do. i have lots of little things that i do that make me different from most others. sneakers and tshirts are some of them.


the week prior was very ordinary. work home chat sleep work. really nothing exciting to report. the weathers been mostly crap.sunshine on the weekend was good but before then its been crappy. its been a shame to see some of the profiles that have been deleted in the last few weeks. some were old timers, some were new timers (and some were newbies who idiots exposed in the real world (jerks!)) - it's just disappointing to see it occur so regularly.


well that looks like a wall of text so i'll close up here. have a good week everybody

i'm always puzzled when i'm browsing through the days uploaded pics, and i've selected "hide dicks" and yet, there's still plenty of them to be seen. clicking further and i often find that the pics are labeled "chicks". now i'm pretty sure that if you look down and there's a sausage and eggs, then you're a bloke, not a chick. how can you get that bit wrong?

believe it or not guys, your dick is not so awesomely impressive that the rest of the world absolutely must see it.

seems to be so much friction in the chat room recently. mostly started by guys being idiots but then it permeates the whole room for ages afterwards.

examples seen recently....

* a major *IDIOT* who because the lady he was trying to chat too got logged out, posted her private email address publicly in the room. what was the point of that dickhead?

* blatant assumptions and over-generalisations (which hid thinly veiled racism) about entire countries/people. it's 2011 people. racism is so last century.

* there's a few people who seem to think that every woman on here is actually a male. even couples are subject to this tirade. doesn't seem to matter that they've got more pics than the accusers, or that they've been here longer, or that others are saying they've seen pics that are now deleted because of jerks like the accuser, or even that others have spoken to the people in RL, the person being accused must be male because those people have accused them of being male.

* there's a few guys who after being politely told that the person of their attention doesn't prv, or doesn't cam, or doesn't want to chat at the time of asking, then continue to harass and bitch (in the room and in prvs) at the same person. are they hoping they'll change their minds at that point? how about accepting no as just a no?




we're all here to have fun i thought. i don't understand why people come into the chat room if all they're there to do is annoy and bug people? where's the fun in that? i cant believe i'm starting to sound like a hippy but really can't we all just be friends? didn't your parents teach you that if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all? why bring all the hurt and pain from the RL into here where people are trying to forget their daytodays and enjoy themselves?

sigh. i know. i'm probably dreaming


btw - i've deliberately chosen not to name and shame the sinners, though some deserve it. especially the first guy. you're a *CLASS A JERK*.

public service announcement.

guys, please, if you see someone on here you know, SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT IT! don't scare the women off posting by making creepy comments about knowing them and having crushes on them. all you're doing is scaring them that someone will reveal their secret hobby, or embaress them.

don't be jerks! and to the jerk i just saw being a jerk - thanks for nothing

so at 4:50pm, i get told "oh by the way, you may need to stay in sydney till thursday, and maybe friday morning. can you take some extra clothes?"

sigh. its not like i really have a life anyway, so it's not going to impact on much except my sleep will be screwed from being in a strange place, but still it would appear the sales person knew about this last week - a little more notice would have been appreciated.

anyway, if anyone notices i'm not online much this week, that's what's happened.

occasionally when i'm on here, i'll see a photo of something i like, and then i'll click to read the profile, and the little counter in the top corner says 0 profile views before. and then i look at when they joined, and the persons been here for years, and then i look again at their pictures, and they've got heaps of pics, with heaps of comments and heaps of ratings.

it just makes me kinda sad that not one of those voters and commentors has taken the time to click to find out about the person a little more.

sometimes there's not much to read but other times the person has obviously thought about what they wanted their profile to say and represent, but still nobodys taken the time to view it. i dont really understand how people can not click on the profiles to read them to be honest. it just seems like the normal (to me) thing to do after finding a pic that interests me.

anyway, just something that struck me again tonight, and this time i thought i'd mention it

have a good week everybody