well where to start. i hate writing these things. i'm big on spelling, but bad with capitals. i babble when i'm nervous. i'm generally shy until i get to know someone irl, but being online makes it easier to be less shy. i'm single and have been since the last long term. that went for so long that i needed a break afterwards, but now i'm starting to remember that i used to enjoy taking photos, and used to enjoy sex, and really i should be out there doing more of it :) i'm primarily a geek. techo/hacker to be more descriptive. these days i'm old (well feel it) and try to be a hermit though i seem to go out more often than a hermit should.if i go out, its typically to drink cocktails, or maybe a movie, or food. art galleries and bars are also popular attractions. i tend to eat out a bit as i’m a rotten cook. i’m told i look and act younger than my age, which is kinda good but also makes me feel a bit lecherous when it’s some younger girl who’s said that to me when guessing my ages as much younger. perhaps they’re being polite. i live close to the city, work with computers, and spend a lot of my spare time on them or fixing other peoples. i play on the xbox a bit too, especially now the weathers getting colder. i'm looking for ppl to interact with, people that know how to type and aren't afraid to, people that like to watch cam and use their cams, though the power of text is pretty amazing too. in my perfect world, someone to occasionally have rl sex with would be great. if it developed i wouldn’t particularly object, but i'm not that keen to get serious right away. i like to think i'm a nice guy. i'm very respectful and laid-back. i'm big on no stress and live life slowly without rushing. all the ex's have always considered me a freak in the bedroom, but i've been using the internet for too long and i know i'm actually pretty tame. i'm a bit scatter brained and absent minded, but i have an excellent knowledge of random trivial crap. i'm a big believer in karma and trying to be nice to everyone. life's too short to be mad all the time. i get on well with animals and kids and play well with most others. i'm pretty open and accepting of others life styles and choices - i believe in live and let live, and do what thou wilt, but don't bother me (or others) while you do it. any other questions i'd be happy to answer them. just ask.

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