unsullied's blog post - Tentatively happy!

Monday, October 24, 2011, 10:13:52 PM

So, i guess lots has happened in exactly two months! I've been pretty MIA of late as I start my last year of the program I'm in. It's been crazy and busy and I moved apartment again, and things have looked up for sure!

Another guy I'd met and dated briefly at the beginning of the summer made a reappearance in September, and believe it or not I actually have a boyfriend now! After four years it's about time. I won't speculate on the future too much, so for now I'll focus on being happy and not procrastinating *too* much on all my homework!

As for my presence on NN, I feel really conflicted now that I am dating someone. Is it okay to have an account like this and keep it private? Should I not talk to people as I used to and limit myself to chatting with friends? Should I post pictures or even delete some? I don't know what to do!!

I've never had this dilemma, but don't think I would be comfortable sharing this website with a significant other. If I shared it too soon, it might scare them off, and if shared too late it might be seen as being unfaithful. Does anyone have thoughts on this?

Anyways, I hope you're all doing well. It's definitely getting chilly in Toronto, though it's been mixed in with absolutely gooorgeous fall days with blue skies and bright yellow leaves! I'm really enjoying myself

I'll try to post more regularly on what I've been up to. I've been avoiding posting about the budding romance in case things got all screwed up (which they might still, who knows really?!). I'm excited for Halloween, but still don't know what to dress up as. Any costume ideas?

xoxo

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johnnyc2k on 24-Oct-11 23:06:48

Congrats to you both on the new love! I say be honest about you being here and then if he asks you to leave then atleast you have made that decision as a loving couple.

hornyman1155 on 25-Oct-11 2:49:45

let the timing and your gut feelings guide you which ever way you think.

good luck.

purr_tato on 25-Oct-11 2:53:16

good luck with everything

Nightjack on 25-Oct-11 8:00:22

I am so pleased to hear that you have a boyfriend. You will know in time what decision to make, if it means leaving NN, so be it. I wish you every happiness whatever your decision. xx

atic on 25-Oct-11 11:49:02

Yay you :)

philby13 on 25-Oct-11 15:07:37

Congrats on the budding romance, I hope it's everything you want and deserve:) With regards to the NN question, that's a personal choice. While I for one would be disappointed to not be able to view your beautiful body anymore you have to do what's right for you. Hopefully that's not leave NN but if it is I wish you all the best.

hornyjduk on 26-Oct-11 4:13:30

Obviously I'm pleased for you....but on the other hand I'm gutted because in my opinion you have the best 'portfolio' of pics on here....and you've already started to delete some of them! Nooooo!!!!

tentouch on 27-Oct-11 4:28:10

If you want my honest (although unsolicited) opinion I would say take them down and delete your whole profile. I've been in this situation before and you just can't have a secret life and give your all to someone else. That includes all dating profiles and msn addresses etc you use for this stuff. I know it seems drastic but trust me, you will feel a weight off your shoulders when you do it. Hope that helps!

sidders73 on 27-Oct-11 18:08:09

Nice to hear things are going well for you. I'm really pleased.

sailormayv on 27-Oct-11 22:54:04

That's awesome. You should see if he's into it -- maybe you can post together. :)