Lovitt thanks for commenting and asking about my wife situation.. I feel I am on the edge of deciding. I am torn. Is this normal? I have decided to keep a running account in my head, of those times I just want to walk out right then and there. It takes alot for me to feel this way. I am much for tolerant then I was in my twenties. The count is at 4. I starting it Jan 1. It is kind of like a fate thing. I don't count anything I directly cause. I have set a date of July forth as the date to have my final decision made. I don't want counseling or anything like....It bowls down to her taking me for granted.. Money. I make alot more then her and it just seems never to be enough to have the kind of fun I know want. She likes to stay home and do nothing...always to tired to do anything. Unless her friends or family is involved. If we split and sell the house. All debt is paid. I now have money every month (all my paychecks are mine). I can find a person who likes to experiment with sex and have fun with life! So.. Money..freedom with my money sex..find a partner who is fun attitude.....find someone who wants to enjoy life and will not take me for granted thaT I will be there. AM I taking the right road?? ANy advice will be appreciated..Thanks all
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