So my relationship is actually NOT falling to pieces and we are still very happy. Although, we did have our first fight today and I want to tell yall about it so you can judge my level of douche-baggery (or non douche-baggery if you happen to agree with me lol)
First off you should know that my girlfriend speaks only Spanish and no English. Sometimes we have communication breakdowns or misunderstanding but today was more of a cultural difference I think.
So I took my girlfriend to lunch at a local shopping mall because we were already there. She told me she wanted Chinese and I ordered something else. I got my food first and I was starving! (because I had no breakfast) and then we went to go get her food. Well we sat down at a table and she started checking her voicemail's etc. I figured she would eat after she was done with that.
She knew I was starving so I started to eat. But, by the time I was almost done eating I saw she still hadn't ordered anything. I asked her about it and the BLEW UP at me... I am not talking a little bit mad I am talking really really angry lol.
At first I couldnt understand what I did wrong but then it became clear she was angry because I didnt wait for her. I admit that I could have said something to her but her level of anger was really uncalled for. I just assumed she was going to eat because she said she wanted Chinese and she was hungry. She changed her mind or got busy or whatever and that was not my fault.
I have been living single for a long long time and she has always, her whole life shared with people,cared for her son etc. So I think this was more of a cultural difference than anything. I am still getting used to this whole couple-ly stuff. I admit fault partly.... but her level of anger of this was way more than I deserved.
But, there is good news. The make-up sex was amazing
now we are all good again
Boy did I ever learn my lesson haha. So what do you think? Was a total asshat? Did I assume too much? I had no bad intentions.....