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I guess once a week, it will be (even though I really would like more) so last night we went to bed a bit later than usual and when I started kissing The Wife things got started. She does really like giving me head (although she does not swallow) and last night she was really getting into it so I decided to sort of move things up a notch (not a really conscious decision, just heat of the moment) and started fucking her mouth which she took well and got even more active. I then moved to eat her during which she seemed to have a small orgasm and then fucked for about 15 -20 minutes for both of us to orgasm.

Friday I had to work a double shift and it was after midnight by the time we went to bed, Saturday I had to be up at 4:30 AM to put together a catering order for 7:00 delivery. I had planned to come back from the delivery and sort of putter around the house but I was so worn out that I went back to bed. Around 9:30 / 10. The Wife woke me up in an amorous mood. We ended up having a very good fuck lasting a bit over an hour total with oral from both sides and we both came from fucking (I think she came a bit from me going down on her as well). Very enjoyable.
The movie mentioned in my last entry is Outlander on Netflix, It is a very good show, we are in season 2 and if you enjoy historical shows this is a good one. It is Fictional while based loosely on actual events.

I had a long day of work Saturday and when I got home we were watching a show on Netflix with lots of sexual content (more on that later) and when we went to bed I was hoping for some activity as we had discussed it - sort of - . Well, I was lucky and we had a pretty good session with oral from both sides and fucking. She came slightly from me going down on her and again when we were fucking as I came in her.

We took the train home from Chicago overnight from Friday to Saturday - I enjoy the train, but it IS expensive vs just flying up and neither of us slept well. Part of the reason I wanted to take the train was that in the past we did fuck on the train which I found nice, but she insisted we sleep separately this time, so no go. We did, somewhat surprisingly, fuck again Saturday night and it was sort of just ok. I guess I should be glad we are actually having sex, but I still hope for more.

Well, sort of as usual, since we are on vacation we did have sex. The main issue is the bed sucks and was partially broken so we were unable to actually fuck. I ate her to orgasm and she blew me till I came on her tits. Overall it was a pretty good time, although late at night and I had a bit more to drink than usual. That was Monday night (2 days ago). Yesterday she ate too much at dinner and was clear there was not going to be a repeat immediately but I am hoping for another opportunity before we go home on Friday.

Well, The Wife announced that she is starting a new weight loss program yesterday. She has used this system in the past and lost weight, but then decides to stop and not pay attention to what she is eating, so gains the weight back. She had said she would not start it till after our next trip in a few weeks, but suddenly started yesterday. We will see how long this lasts.

I am guessing that she will simply not initiate things most of the time which is totally opposite of when we were first together. Yesterday I got a tattoo on my upper chest and as we went to bed she seemed to be focused on it (we both have a few tattoos) and that led me to try and get things started which worked. We did have a decent fuck, total time was around 30 minutes.

Well, here is it, almost another week (make is 3 this time) of no sex and I actually sort of tried yesterday despite my plan not to. I have ended up sleeping on the sofa quite a bit as she has started snoring LOUDLY. Well, yesterday, The Wife worked with me as none of the regular 'crew' was available which was pretty nice. At one point, she had to go to the bathroom which itself is not odd, but when she came back she was complaining about pain. I sort of looked at her odd and questioned her about that and her response was that she had hurt herself while wiping when the TP tore a few days ago. It was just odd for her to suddenly be mentioning this. Later there were a few jokes about me wanting to play with her tits to which her answer was not in public but maybe later. When we got home she was changing and I decided it was a good time to try to play with them but was pretty much told NO. Oh, well, I mean if she scratched herself so badly that it hurts to pee or wipe (not sure which) we could not have intercourse anyway.

Well, here I am 2 weeks of nothing sex wise. I *thought* with last night being the night before my birthday, she might be amorous, but she got in bed and went straight to sleep. Well, today IS my birthday and we have show tickets for Thursday so I am, as always, Forever hopeful.
I did have a very frank discussion with The Ex and finally told her how badly she had damaged me and our kids. She took it and said she does not understand which I am not totally surprised about. I have determined that I WILL NOT sleep with her again - been quite a while anyway - and I do not need to add that to my list of concerns.

Well, it HAD been 6 weeks of no activity and suddenly on Friday night The Wife for some reason, decided to initiate sex. It was surprisingly good although she had a leg cramp just as I was about to cum. I had a long workday Saturday and promises were made to try again and I tool a 'blue pill' just after dinner in case. Well, to my surprise she actually followed thru and we did fuck again. I am pretty sure she came once and I certainly did. We are supposed to go to a movie today and who knows, maybe sex again tonight (although I doubt it)