I am outgoing and new to this. It will be my birthday in a couple of weeks and I am single, I'd like to meet some one and make it a b-day never to be forgotten. Words to describe me are: Laid back, Free spirited, Open Minded and Intelligent. I enjoy a good time but so far I have not met the one. No BBB's please! Don't be upset, that is just my preference.On Sunday afternoons I like to meet friends at a café. I've reached the point where it's time to get past my shy nature and meet someone new. Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it becomes serious later on, I won't complain. When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book, my fingers or a good toy. Sexually, I'm pretty wild, but only if the chemistry is right. I love toys, watching and well, a light spanking once and a while. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you. I prefer mature adults, not young girls/boys with drama! No DRAMA PLEASE!!! My fantasy is to be either fingered or f'd anally and vaginally while giving head either to a toy, a pussy or a man. I also love mutual masturbation indoors and outdoors with either sex. I may sound slutty but I am very picky about who or when I have sex. I just feel that when I actually find a suitable partner it better be worth my time! My Ideal: I am picky about who I play with. I am attracted to the persons body, intentions, spirit and personality. To be honest I prefer lipstick lesbians when I want a woman.I love a man who knows how to read my body language and know when to either pound my pussy or take it slow and make me beg for that hard dick. When it comes to sex I have a basic rule- only consenting ADULTS and no animals. I enjoy a tomboy but if I want a man I will date/fuck a man. TS/TG - I am open to it. I think TS/TG people are on a higher evolutionary plane than most are but I have never been with anyone TS/TG. I think my ideal sexual partner is: discreet, kinky, playful, would like to hear me talk dirty, be dominant but gentle and into light bondage. I also am only attracted to people who take care of themselves. I am down, are you?