I deal with needy people all the time. We feed lunch & breakfasts throughout the week at the street mission where I do volunteer chores. Lots of homeless and nomadic types, as well as new immigrants with families. We also have a weekly food bank operation for 85-108 persons.
When I come home sometimes I have to put up with needy, insecure, useless people, like the idiot neighbour who plays concerts for on his bass and guitar. He is not playing at the moment, but he was, earlier --- playing just at edge of being a nuisance, an invader of my acoustic space. This is not friendly behaviour in any way. He is just a super needy psycho. There are lots of glamour and media people just like this. There is no off switch, just always performing and being prominant.
It has not been loud lately. Maybe something happened when I went for a little five-day trip out to the prairies to visit with my mother. I don't know. But he had to show up and draw attention to himself, the unhappy little monster, at least for a few minutes. |