It is interesting as I think about the difference between The Wife and The Ex. In many ways they are so much alike, but yet, so opposite. The Ex is rather petite standing just 5' 1" and The Wife is 5'9" full figured. With The Ex, I have no problem finding her clit - it becomes enlarged (although not oversized) and she cums quite easily. The Wife, on the other hand, has trouble sometimes finding her own clit and takes longer to cum. The Ex, tastes almost sweet (maybe because she keeps herself clean and makes sure to wash well before any sexual activity) whereas The Wife has a somewhat sour (not bad) taste. In the right circumstances, they are both quite good in bed, but neither of them goes out of their way to initiate sex on a regular basis. Recently, The Wife seems to have decided to tease me a bit, almost always sleeping without a top but if I try to initiate sex, she makes excuses as to why nothing will happen. Two weeks ago on Wednesday night when we went to bed I tried and she said she was too tired and to wait for the weekend and of course nothing happened. Last night when we went to bed, I figured since it was Saturday night, there was a good chance, but, nope. I tried getting things started and she shut things down. Here it is Sunday morning, 7:00 AM Fathers Day and I am here on NN, instead of having sex with The Wife. There is something wrong with this picture. She leaves for another trip with her Mom in a bit over a week and will be gone for 2 weeks. The Ex has already indicated that we will fuck a bit during that time and I am looking forward to it. Another session in the Hot Tub like last year would be very welcome as that was AMAZING! To be totally fair, I realize that we have a lot of stress in our daily lives, but sex is really, truly, good for your health. It does make it difficult that she insists on 'sleeping in' on the weekends and usually does not get up until after 9 AM and I cannot do that. |