Yesterday I took the sheets off of 'my' bed to be washed and The Wife put them in fairly early and then by the end of the day they were dry - I did not notice this until late - The Wife went out with her girlfriend to a womens expo during the day and then met me as I was having a late lunch with The Ex and her kid. We all talked a bit about what we are going to do regarding our cell phones as we want to change providers and then went our separate ways. Later after dinner, she had 2 wine coolers and I figured that I might actually have a chance of getting laid, As we went to bed, she asked if I needed assistance putting the sheets on my bed and I replied that I figured I would just sleep with her, well, that turned out to be a pretty good idea as once she got to bed, I started kissing her and trying to get her 'started'. While I did not get any head, she did did play with me with her bullet and I ate her to (I think) at least 2 climaxes, she was even quieter than usual, so I am not really sure. Finally moved up to fuck her and we both came pretty much at the same time.
Of course, this follows when we were talking in the morning and she mentioned that she had been up early and decided not to get out of bed and I responded that she should have called or texted me and I would have joined her in bed - her reaction - I was not thinking about that - of course she was not, unless I start things and push it a bit, she does not seem to think about sex at all.

I guess with The Ex working that I will be checking out CL for a new FB. Does anyone have experience with that and any suggestions?

Which is basically a good thing, but she works during the day when we would normally be fooling around so it seems to be putting a stop to our sex life which is not such a good thing. But it is good that she is working although we will see how long it lasts.

Well .... Last night we went out and did our monthly mystery dinner thing and The Wife had a carafe of sangria. Now normally she does not get horny from wine (although I keep hoping she will) last night was different and maybe our anniversary and Valentines Day were part of it - who knows. I did notice before we left that she had cleared the 'junk' off of the bed so if I wanted, there was a place for me to sleep. We got home late as we usually do from these events and sat to watch the late news for a few minutes, finally put our birds to bed (covered the cages) and she went to bed - well I decided to follow her and was pleasantly surprised when she was receptive to my advances and was (sort of) kissing me back. She complained that her hands were cold so I moved one hand to my dick and she started to stroke me. After a few minutes, I changed position so I could finger her and moved so my dick was near her head. She began to suck on me a little bit - not as energetically as in the distant past, but some suck is better than no suck. I kept fingering her and after a bit moved to eat her while she kept playing with me. I decided to be aggressive with my oral assault and that seemed to have a good effect as she was writing and reacting in other ways to my tongue. She was getting wetter and wetter and moving around more as I went between sucking on her clit and sticking my tongue as deep into her hole as possible (which put my nose almost in her asshole). I also fingered her a bit when I was sucking on her clit. After a bit of this and when I did not think either of us could stand any more, I moved up and fucked her. We were both so worked up that neither of us lasted long and we both came with a scream/growl. I can honestly say that this was one of the best sessions with The Wife in a long, long time.
I do not expect a repeat performance any time soon, but I am grateful for this one.

Well .... The show was great last night, we both enjoyed it. This morning she seemed somewhat down, but when queried, denied being down or anything being wrong. Against my better judgement, because I do not think she appreciates it, I stopped and got her some very expensive chocolates, a special cookie, flowers and a card. I doubt that this will buy me sex, but at least I am doing the 'right thing' for the holiday.

The Wife and I have tickets to Wicked. I am really looking forward to finally seeing this show. Purchased the tickets as a anniversary / VT day gift. Do not really expect to get laid anytime soon by The Wife, but I am just taking life as it is presented.

The Ex wants me to hold off on jerking off so that I will have a bigger load for her. I did manage for two days, and was expecting her to come over today. When she did not, I finally gave in and jerked off twice. What a relief. She will be tied up with our younger daughter tomorrow (Wednesday)and I will try to resist so that if we can hook up on Thursday I will have a decent load for her.
The problem is every time I log in here to check up on everyone, I get so excited that I have trouble NOT cumming! At least I have a full day tomorrow and am unlikely to have time for more than a really quick swing thru.

That my update will be done later today or tomorrow morning .......

The other night, I suggested to The Wife that she join me upstairs and her response was that she cannot sleep upstairs especially if she has to get up for work in the morning. There are two problems with this statement - 1) she has only tried to sleep upstairs one time in the past 13 months and 2) this was Saturday night and she did not have to get up in the AM. She did say that I was welcome to sleep in the bedroom with her but I declined as I pointed out that it would not matter since she would just go directly to sleep. She did not disagree or argue, so I just went on upstairs.

We went to a nice dinner at a steak house with our friends and had a few drinks. Came home and watched a bit of the Olympics and news then headed to bed where I thought The Wife *might* either join me upstairs of suggest that I should join her downstairs, but, no surprise, we went different directions so there I lay, alone on what is my 15th anniversary.
Really not a surprise, but frustrating nonetheless.

For Monday, I have a catering job in the evening and The Ex will be helping me cook in the morning. She was rather frustrated that we did not have time to fuck yesterday so we will probably spend some time cooking and some time fucking Monday morning. (actually, I am going to try to get a good bit of the cooking done between today and tomorrow to make Monday less stressful)