It has now been 9 weeks since I last had any 'activity' with The Wife!
Oh well..... staying busy with work and the occasional fuck with The Ex.

The Ex came over this morning and we spend about 30 or so minutes in the hot tub even though it was not really warm enough. it was fun, we were both naked and I was playing with her tits/nipples most of the time. About 25 minutes in, I realized that there were roofers working across the field, now if I can see them, they can see me but I do not think they were paying any attention and we both kept our private parts under water. When it came time to get out, I insisted on getting out first and handing her a towel so she would not be exposed any more than necessary. After getting out, we went inside and upstairs where after she got warm, I sucked on her nipples for a few minutes before she 'pushed' me south. This was one of the most relaxing times we have had together in a long time and we were both intent on enjoying it to the fullest. I started with light licks and kept changing things including engulfing her entire pussy with my mouth and sticking my tongue as far in her as possible which seemed to really get her going. I wanted this to last and told her to not feel rushed and not to cum until she was really ready. I ended up eating her for 15 - 20 minutes until the volume of her moans started to increase, ending with a loud shout after which she pulled me up to enter her. I quickly plunged into her and proceeded to fuck her to another orgasm after which I came HARD. She commented that she could get addicted to this kind of activity and quality on my part. This was so much exertion that we both just lay there for a few minutes.
Once we had caught our breath, she went downstairs to shower and I washed up and got dressed and we both went to a business lunch. On our way back from lunch she commented that she cannot believe that The Wife would not want what she had experienced this morning. (LOL that makes me feel good)
Oh, well, at least I am getting good sex somewhere.

And then she says what she said last night ....
'You Better not Wake me up in the morning!'

Of course she has said that she likes waking up to me and I should join her in bed in the morning occasionally......

Yeah, Right

So after fucking yesterday, The Ex commented that she tried to be quieter when she came because 'it is not ladylike' to be so vocal. I chuckled and told her (again) that I like her being loud as it is an indication that I am doing something right and that she is enjoying it!

The Ex spent some time with me today while I baked for my new business (Breads and Cookies). She had to run a few errands then came back and showered before we went upstairs to fuck. She laid down on the bed and I lightly sucked on her nipples before moving down to eat her. Ate her for a few minutes until she came with her usual scream and then moved to fuck her. (Before we got started, she asked if I still had condoms as she is concerned about the vasectomy and obviously she cannot afford to get pregnant) I went to pull on the condom and she said no, forget it and just get in me. I did as requested and she said if I wanted to I could pull out and cum on her stomach. After fucking her for a bit, I realized that I was about to cum so I pulled out and came just above her bikini line but the cum got into her hair and would not come out. She ended up getting back into the shower to get clean. Good fuck, but we were somewhat rushed as she had to get her youngest from school.

Well, her tattoos are healing up well and they really are sexxy (If you like ink) but still no sex. I had sort of hoped that there would be some action when we were out of town this past weekend, but no such luck. Waiting on The Ex to come over this morning for breakfast and ??. She did say that she wanted to fuck last week before I left but we did not have time so hopefully she is still thinking the same thing.

Sunday we went to a local tattoo show. On the way there, I again started a discussion about our *lack of* sex like. She was like ' well we had sex just a few weeks ago' to which I answered 'no, it was more like 5 weeks ago' she responded that she did not realize it had been that long but made no offer to remedy the situation, just said that she was not paying attention to time (in other words she does not really care to have sex).
While at the show, she decided to get ..... hold on now ..... Nipple Tattoos! Absolutely Blew My Mind!!!!!! Quite pretty but she is extremely sore! Her reasoning for wanting this was that she was them in the artist portfolio and since she had breast surgery does not like her nipples. In talking to her friend about it after the fact, she said that her nipples were never very pretty and were worse after the surgery (which was pretty messed up) I replied that I had always and continued to like her nipples but did like the new ink. Amazingly I do have photos and will post them.

We did have some more discussion about our *lack of* sex life where I mentioned that I did not like to wake her on weekend mornings and she said that she liked waking up to me but I take that with a grain of salt since she may like waking up next to me but never makes any effor tto improve our sex life.

Since I last fucked The Wife. Was thinking about giving it a shot last night but at 11:00 when we were going to bed, she announced that she was going to color her hair. Since we sleep in separate rooms and I was going to see about joining her, I decided to just go to 'my' room since I know how long the hair coloring process takes.
All of that being said, I ended up sleeping in 'my' room upstairs. Now it is 7:00 AM and I am considering going downstairs in a bit to take a shot at her. -- Not sure if I really have the energy --
Either way, later today we are going to a tattoo show in town which should be interesting.

A few nights ago The Wife and I went out to dinner with some friends and had a pretty nice dinner then she started complaining about me to them. A bit of background .... I am in business with my parents and last week got into an argument with them in which they blamed me for some legal troubles which are not my fault. This made me rather depressed and when she came home on Wednesday evening she wanted to discuss a day trip on Saturday to which I replied that we do not have the money and I am too depressed to discuss it. W e l l ..... apparently that upset her so much that she cried herself to sleep so she starts going off to our friends about this. The upshot of it is that apparently I am not allowed to be depressed. It doesn't matter that we sleep in separate rooms and rarely have sex, apparently I have nothing to be depressed about and must make sure to keep a happy face so SHE is ok.
I am just a bit pissed that she even feels this way and that she brought it up in front of our friends.
Oh, well, life goes on.....

I really want to write a detailed blog because I have a lot on my mind that I need to share here, but I am not feeling inspired. I have been writing it in my mind for the past 24 hours and will probably get it out in the next 24.