Is my wedding anniversary. I assume we will go out to dinner tonight and maybe again this weekend to celebrate with different friends. We have tickets for Wicked for next week as well. What I assume will not be part of the celebration if sex
The Ex is coming over today for lunch and we are supposed to have some 'fun' so at least that.
Got a busy weekend with a few hours of work both Saturday and Sunday and then a big event to cater on Monday evening.

**Edit**
So The Wife gets up this morning and is all 'lovey dovey' with me rubbing and kissing on me which is certainly not normal. and gives me a anniversary card that seems to promise more attention. It says to the effect of ' I know i do not pay enough attention to you and I will do better. Needless to say, I am not holding my breath as things have not changed for over 10 years and we have had many discussions about the lack of sexual activity where she indicated that she would make an effort.
hmmmmmmmmm we will see. Updates later or in the AM depending on how the day goes.
Well, off to work now ....

The Wife asks how I slept (since we sleep in separate rooms) and I usually answer 'fine' when what I really want to say is 'ok, but it would have been so much better if I had a woman to curl up to and make love' but that would not get me anywhere. Then today, she bitches because The Ex spent the day sitting on the sofa working. She says it upsets her that The Ex spends more time in 'her' home that she does. I was like, this is one time when she just sat here and kept the birds company while she got some work done. PLEASE just chill out.
Sorry - just my bitch of the day!

The Wife was working on cleaning her office (at home) and I, once again, made moves on her sexually and she continued to shoot me down. Now, ok, she really did need to get things finished up in her office and she asked me if she should quit working to go with me and I said no, I was just trying to remind her that it had been over 8 weeks since I had made love to my wife which got an awww type of response but nothing indicating that would change. As we went to bed, I hesitated thinking she might say, join me and lets make love but no, that did not happen. Oh well .... I did not expect things to change, but I do keep trying and meanwhile I will continue to fuck The Ex whenever I can. (and I have started browsing CL for opportunities)

(Or - You can't blame Guy for Trying)
because it does sort of hurt to try when you are shot down.
Yesterday (Saturday) we were hanging around the house and got a call from one of our tenants that she was moving so that created a change of plans since we now had to go secure the ac unit so it would not get stolen for the copper value. Well,I had a catering order to be picked up at 2:00 so we had some time to kill before the client arrived and The Wife was like 'what are we going to do for the next 90 minutes' and of course, my response was to start kissing her neck and ears and telling her that I know exactly what we can do for the next 90 minutes. WEEEELLLL you can guess the response! After trying 3 times to convince her that we should spend at least part of the next 90 minutes in bed, I gave up and pointed out that another option was to head to the hardware store and get the materials that we needed. She liked that idea! Off we went. Ultimately, the catering order was picked up and we secured the AC unit. Spent the evening at a filming for a new game show that an acquaintance of mine is starting and I ended up as a contestant and won second prize.
On another note, I understand that the groundhog saw his shadow and is predicting another 6 weeks of winter. Would someone please shoot the groundhog.

Well, The Ex got distracted yesterday so we did not get a chance to fuck and she even said that she was frustrated by not having sex when planned. We will try again Monday or Tuesday for sure.

and that can be dangerous but not this time.
A few weeks ago I was counting up how many times I had fucked The Wife last year and I figured I can do the same for The Ex (thanks to this blog)
It appears that I fucked The Wife about 8 times last year or about every 6 weeks, on the other hand, I fucked The Ex about every 3 1/2 weeks or 13 times last year so almost twice as often and so far this year, I am moving to break that record.
Just interesting thoughts that really do not mean anything.
Hoping that she will spend some time here today both working, in the Hot Tub (which is cooler than yesterday) and in bed on top of me.

So, I learned today that 110 is too hot for the hot tub, add vegetables and we could have been a stew!
The Ex came over and we went to the hot tub, but it was so hot that it was uncomfortable. I have now turned down the temp and hopefully she will come back tomorrow for round 2. When we got out she said I looked like a Lobster.
After we went up and I ate her and man oh man was she wet! even more so than usual. After she came I just slid into her with no resistance. fucked her for a bit and she was so slippery that I was having trouble staying in lol. But it was a good fuck.
Told her that next time I want her on top of me - sitting on my face first, then riding me and she said that would be nice and she hopes for tomorrow especially since I turned down the heat on the Hot Tub.

Well, Thursday, The Ex DID come over and we spent a bit of time in the Hot Tub and then went upstairs and had a nice fuck. I then turned up the heat on the Tub because it was not as hot as we wanted. Friday we did not have time to 'connect' but she did come over and ask me to cook some food for her and I now sort of understand why she may have been wanting to fuck. In asking me to cook one of the items was pork chops for her current 'partner' who she wants gone as soon as she can afford to live without his income. and she has a date tonight (Saturday) so she wanted the pork chops done really nice to distract him so that she would have a good time on the date. She does get horny and I guess that she was sort of thinking that fucking me would take the edge off for the date. Doesn't bother me at all, I would like nothing more than for her to meet a guy with money who would make her life better even if that meant no more sex between us. I guess I will see how her Saturday evening goes and hope for the best for her.
Oh, and today makes 7 weeks since I last had any activity with The Wife.

The Ex called me this afternoon and asked what I have planned tomorrow. My answer was that I have my usual Thursday morning meeting which I cater then I need to head downtown for Jury Duty. She questioned what I would be doing between the meeting and the Jury Duty and I said I was not sure. SHE suggested that I come back home and fore up the hot tub so we can have 'some fun' then I can make lunch before I head to the Jury Duty. That all makes perfect sense to me, I might even have her drive me downtown to save the fuel....

Well, I found a new use for this blog .... Sort of ...
I was wondering exactly how many times The Wife and I fucked last year and since I blog every fuck I was able to go back and count them. Turns out that my average has been correct - every 6 weeks - Occasionally it would be 2 weeks in a row or even 1 week apart, but then there would be much longer pauses.
I guess I should go back and see how ofter I fuck The Ex as well, but that is different as we do not live together and are not married.
Hope everyone has a happy Hump Day