Well, The Wife has announced that she is getting laser hair removal for her 'bikini' area. not really sure why (surely not for me), but maybe it is a personal comfort issue. Whatever ...

was back to normal ..... not even a kiss goodnight. She got in bed and got out her book to read. As much as I enjoy reading ( I read ALL the time) I do not read in bed! There are much better things to do there.
Oh, well .....

Well, last night it got late and I had pretty much given up hope that there would be any action in spite of my best efforts (baked and fixed Breakfast in the AM, cleaned Kitchen, Made Dinner for us and the birds, cleaned the Kitchen, put birds to bed) I had even gone and warmed the bed up with the electric blanket and lit a candle in the bedroom, but she was having fun with her Ipad and did not seem interested in coming to bed. Anyway ....
Finally we both got in bed and I rolled over to kiss on her. I was surprised by the return affection .... We 'fooled around' for a few minutes before I went under the covers and went to eat her which I did for almost 30 minutes with minimal response. Finally I was too worked up from what I had been doing and decided to move up and fuck her which I did to one small and one larger orgasm which finally got me cumming.
All in all, not bad, but I really do wish that I did not have to work so hard to get her interested and that she would, once again be interested in giving me head and perhaps initiating sex once in a while.
Oh, well, looking forward to a possible 'session' with The Ex later this week as well.

Well, once again, it has been four weeks since there has been any sex with The Wife. Not for lack of trying! I make sure that I am helping, making dinner, feeding our birds, cleaning the kitchen, etc... When we go to bed, I try to give her a little 'cuddle' but minimal warmth in return. Oh, well ... such is life right now I guess. One problem is that my parents think she can do no wrong, so I cannot talk to them about my problems so I end up discussing the issues with The Ex (which is sometimes weird) but at least I can sort of talk things thru.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone in NN land.

Well, The Ex came over last night as planned, I made her a nice dinner and we started her laundry, then went into the bedroom and fooled around. I ate her good for a while and we played with a feather and some honey dust (Worth trying). Fucked for a bit after that and then just laid in bed resting. After that we watched TV for a bit before joining my kids for SIL Birthday. After Birthday we went back home and finished her laundry. All in all not a bad evening, but I would have liked to fuck twice.

Well, once again it has been 2 weeks since there has been any activity with The Wife (not for lack of trying). I am just tired of it always falling on me to get things started. So tomorrow evening The Wife has tickets for The Trans Siberian Orchestra concert so The Ex and I plan on getting together for a nice evening. She has laundry that she wants me to help her with (her washer and dryer are broken) and she wants me to make her a nice fish dinner since I love to cook. I will do all of this for her and then, while the laundry is happening, we plan to fuck each other silly..... This should be nice because there will be no chance of The Wife coming home early so no interruptions (with the possible exception of phone calls from our kids).

Will see how things go over the next few weeks with The Wife, since even more of the 'stress factors' that she blames for our non-existent sex life are being removed.

I was home in my office making phone calls earlier today (around lunch) and The Wife was putting up our Christmas decorations. Somehow I ended up suggesting that I 'snack' on her - well, the expected answer, 'after I am done with what I am in the middle of' - so I figured that was that. About 45 minutes later, she comes into my office and we are talking and I say something like 'how about that snack' she laughs and I respond 'yeah I figured as much'. Well .... her response was to the effect of I am not laughing at you let's go .... hmmmmm ... we went to our bedroom and cuddled for about 10 minutes after which I ate her out for another 10 (with the usual minimal response)during which she played with me with her bullet vibe. After that I spun around and we fucked for about 10 more minutes or so and she came at least twice.
All in all, not a bad session, she was willing, but did not seem to be as 'into' it as in past times.

Well, If I am counting right, it is now 6 weeks since I have had sex with The Wife. As of Sunday evening, we eliminated the biggest stress factor in our lives for the past 5 weeks, so I am 'hopeful' that this week will bring and end to the drought as I am really wanting to try the new bullet vibe that I purchased.
I hope everyone had a good turkey day.

Worked out as usual this morning and then picked up The Ex to go to a business meeting which ran almost 60 minutes longer than expected. We had planned to get together to fuck after, but because of how long the meeting ran I feared that it would not happen. She called kids and I called the Wife to be sure of their schedules, figured out that we had about 45 minutes and ran upstairs. We both stripped and I immediately went down on her while rubbing on her always hard nipples. Ate her for about 10 minutes while she had her *usual* screaming orgasm (I really need to video it sometime), I quickly pulled on a rubber while she kept herself going by rubbing her own clit and then entered her and fucked her to another orgasm (hers and mine) for another 5+ minutes. It was a quickie, but beats the hell out of jerking off! Have a great Thanksgiving folks.

I have been doing as suggested (thanks purr) and trying to give 'extra' attention to The Wife over the past week and a half or so, staying up until she gets home is she is out working late, making dinner if I am home ( I did that anyway) and generally trying to be more attentive, but, alas, no change. I have been pretty clear with her that I want to have sex and she just sort of pretends that I am not saying what I am saying. Oh Well, I do not give up easily and will keep on trying. Thanks for the advice from all who have written, it proves that this is not just a place to 'perve' but a place filled with caring folks.