Went to bed last night and tried to start something with The Wife, she says too tired, I say 'Figures'. Her response, why not stay in bed with me in the morning and cuddle, I point out that A) I do not like to just lie in bed in teh morning because it makes my back hurt, and B) she has to dog sit and has to leave for that while I fix up our birds. She does not argue and we both go to sleep. Me just more frustrated.
What the Hell was I thinking???? I know the answer before I ask!

Got up yesterday and had a slow start. Getting shower warmed up and getting ready for a 10AM meeting and The Wife comes running into the bath saying you need to come quickly, there is something wrong with one of the birds (we have exotic birds)When I get into the Living Room, I find my 45 year Old Amazon lying on her back dying! We knew she was old and that she would not live forever, and I had noticed her becoming more feeble recently, but you never think that someone is really going to die. Anyway, I picked her up and comforted her as she passed away. At some point in the next few days, I will need to bury her, but the ground is frozen so hard right now, I am not sure that I could dig it.
I did end up making my 10AM meeting, but nothing else. Needless to say, Wife was not in the mood last night and we both have to work tomorrow at a show. I hope everyone has a better weekend than I am at this point!

Went to bed last night and made sure to have the electric blanket pre-warmed so The Wife would be warm when she got in. She gets in and snuggles up against me so I figure she must be feeling 'amorous' I ask 'how about making love?' and the reply is that she is too tired and has to work early in the morning, so maybe Friday night. Yeah, I am not holding my breath! The worst part is that she then put her arm over me just inches from my dick and went to sleep leaving me somewhat excited and frustrated!
same ol, same ol, I guess ....
Then today she was supposed to have a 'long' day where The Ex and I could have had some time together, but due to the snow, she came home early.
Just to top it all off, my truck broke down and I had to pay $750 for repairs on top of about $175 three days ago!
Not one of my better weeks ......

Well, now that we have lost our health insurance due to me changing jobs and The Wife loosing hers, she just noted that her Birth Control Pills are over $30/month. Since I had been thinking about getting 'snipped' so I could have better sex with The Ex, but could not find a way to suggest this to The Wife, now I may have a way ... we will see, I need to figure out what that would cost and come up with the $$ to start anyway. Just an interesting development, though.

Well, The Wife has announced that she is getting laser hair removal for her 'bikini' area. not really sure why (surely not for me), but maybe it is a personal comfort issue. Whatever ...

was back to normal ..... not even a kiss goodnight. She got in bed and got out her book to read. As much as I enjoy reading ( I read ALL the time) I do not read in bed! There are much better things to do there.
Oh, well .....

Well, last night it got late and I had pretty much given up hope that there would be any action in spite of my best efforts (baked and fixed Breakfast in the AM, cleaned Kitchen, Made Dinner for us and the birds, cleaned the Kitchen, put birds to bed) I had even gone and warmed the bed up with the electric blanket and lit a candle in the bedroom, but she was having fun with her Ipad and did not seem interested in coming to bed. Anyway ....
Finally we both got in bed and I rolled over to kiss on her. I was surprised by the return affection .... We 'fooled around' for a few minutes before I went under the covers and went to eat her which I did for almost 30 minutes with minimal response. Finally I was too worked up from what I had been doing and decided to move up and fuck her which I did to one small and one larger orgasm which finally got me cumming.
All in all, not bad, but I really do wish that I did not have to work so hard to get her interested and that she would, once again be interested in giving me head and perhaps initiating sex once in a while.
Oh, well, looking forward to a possible 'session' with The Ex later this week as well.

Well, once again, it has been four weeks since there has been any sex with The Wife. Not for lack of trying! I make sure that I am helping, making dinner, feeding our birds, cleaning the kitchen, etc... When we go to bed, I try to give her a little 'cuddle' but minimal warmth in return. Oh, well ... such is life right now I guess. One problem is that my parents think she can do no wrong, so I cannot talk to them about my problems so I end up discussing the issues with The Ex (which is sometimes weird) but at least I can sort of talk things thru.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone in NN land.

Well, The Ex came over last night as planned, I made her a nice dinner and we started her laundry, then went into the bedroom and fooled around. I ate her good for a while and we played with a feather and some honey dust (Worth trying). Fucked for a bit after that and then just laid in bed resting. After that we watched TV for a bit before joining my kids for SIL Birthday. After Birthday we went back home and finished her laundry. All in all not a bad evening, but I would have liked to fuck twice.

Well, once again it has been 2 weeks since there has been any activity with The Wife (not for lack of trying). I am just tired of it always falling on me to get things started. So tomorrow evening The Wife has tickets for The Trans Siberian Orchestra concert so The Ex and I plan on getting together for a nice evening. She has laundry that she wants me to help her with (her washer and dryer are broken) and she wants me to make her a nice fish dinner since I love to cook. I will do all of this for her and then, while the laundry is happening, we plan to fuck each other silly..... This should be nice because there will be no chance of The Wife coming home early so no interruptions (with the possible exception of phone calls from our kids).

Will see how things go over the next few weeks with The Wife, since even more of the 'stress factors' that she blames for our non-existent sex life are being removed.