My life can be hectic and stressful and I come to NN to relax and have fun. I try to be respectful and pleasant and hate to cause offence to anyone here. My sex life is lacking in real life and I like to indulge in fantasy, flirt and play online. There have been a few sexy friends that i have gotten close to and I value their friendship and enjoy chatting and playing with them online. Some friends come and go and there are those that I have lost contact with that I miss and wonder how they are. Some people I have chatted with have taken me the wrong way which sometimes happens with PM's and messages....they don't contain the chuckle or intonation of the spoken word and can be read differently. I'm sorry to those who I've offended in some way, its not many people, but all the same it disturbs me to think there are people out there in the purple and pink kingdom who think ill of me.
Thank you to my good friends and those that have made me feel good and sexy again.

Paul xxx

I must admit I'm a fan of online fun. I love having a naughty chat, sending pics and camming too. I have always been nervous about camming but the excitement of getting off with a girl always seems to win over the nerves. I had an experience the other morning with someone from here who was nervous about showing on cam so she just talked dirty to me using only audio, no cam while she watched me. Her partner was there too and she sat on his face and sucked him too, telling me all about it. I just have to say it was sooooo arousing and I came seriously hard! I really have to evaluate whether hearing all the fun or seeing it is better? Both is always good but if you could choose one, which would turn you on more?
So to the girls who are too nervous to show on cam, hearing is just as sexy......maybe even sexier.

Paul xoxoxo

Just thought I'd share some music with you. These are my favourite French/American band at the moment, Moriarty.......


here is the gorgeous Lisa Hannigan with Damien Rice.......


and the saddest songs in the world.....Richmond Fontaine $87 and a guilty conscience....

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just what I am enjoying now

Paul xxxx

1. Elvis or The Beatles?
I have to say Elvis, although I do like The Beatles

2. Steak or fish?
Fish

3. Jazz or blues?
I have to say Jazz even though I love the blues, I am crazy about jazz

4. Dogs or cats?
I have a dog and a cat and I gotta say I love the cat more

5. How many NN crushes have you got?
I have 4, but one more than the others

6. How many of your NN friends do you want to meet?
Hmmm about 6 of them I think.

7. Would you meet for coffee or more?
Mainly coffee but who knows......

8. Do you prefer to look or be looked at?
I prefer to look

9. How many orgasms would you like a day?
1 or 2 please

10. What would you like the postman to deliver?
cheques! and lots of them

11. What is the sexiest occupation for a partner?
I think probably an erotic fiction writer......who wants to try out all the scenarios with me.

12. Do the comments and PM’s sometimes arouse you?
Very much

13. The beach or the mountains?
I just love the beach

14. Do you live in the city or country?
Somewhere in between

15. Do you think you spend too much time on NN?
uh......yes!

If you do this questionnaire yourself let cheekypaul know please ................I'm curious about you lot

1. Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider having sex with
Yes, yes and yes!

2. Have you ever fantasized about someone on your friends list?
Oh yes indeed!

3. Have you ever seen anyone on your friends list on webcam?
Yes and they have seen me too and it was awesome )

4. Have you ever spoken on the phone with someone on your friends list?
well yes, voice chat on messenger

5. Have you ever met in person someone on your friend's list?
No

6. Have you ever accidentally prv' someone in chat by accident?
no

7. Have you ever been in a hot and steamy prv with someone in chat and had the other person suddenly go, leaving your last raunchy statement posted publicly in the room?
No

8. Have you even been carrying on two different naughty chats while in the NN chatroom?
No

9. Have you ever been in NN chat while talking to someone physically in the same room as you are in while on the computer?
No

10. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
Hmmmm, both at different times.....

11. Do you love someone on your friends list?
not love but I am smitten!

12. Do you know all the people on your friends list?
No, but some I know very well

13. Love or money?
can't I have both!

14. Credit cards or cash?
I hardly use cash these days but I do prefer it

15. Has there ever been anyone in your family you wish wasn't?
of course, family is there to test us and help us learn diplomacy.

16. Would you rather go camping or to a 5 star hotel?
5 star all the way!!

17. What is the weirdest place you have had sex
on a timber floor in a huge open room, right in the middle.....it was a little breezy and echoed!

18. Would you shave your entire body (including your head) for money?
How much money? I mean for a couple of hundred thousand.........absolutely, it does grow back after all

19. Have you ever been to a strip club?
Yes, but I didn't like it, the girls looked so bored

20. Ever been to a bar?
Hmmmmm let me think

21. Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club?
of course!

22. Kissed someone of the same sex?
yes and it didn't do it for me at all

23. Favorite alcoholic drink?
Beer and wine equally

24. Had sex in a movie theater?
yes

25. Had sex in a bathroom?
yes

26. Have you ever had sex at work?
yes

27. Have you ever been in an "adult" store?
yes

28. Bought something from an adult store?
Yes

29. Have you been caught having sex?
yes, very embarrassing...........but I was young enough to continue with it after they left the room

30. Does anyone have naughty pics of u?
they certainly do

31. Have you ever had sex with someone and Called them the wrong name?
yes indeed and it haunts me still

Well some of you know that I have been looking forward to trying cam to cam, cybersex........whatever you want to call it..........for some time. You see I absolutely LOVE to see a woman play.........it is the sexiest thing in the world for me and the idea of playing right along with her face to face is even hotter.
I have had a lot of false starts and a few hellos and brief encounters but that was all until tonight.

I have a friend on here who very generously offered advice as to why I wasn't having much success in finding a playmate. As we talked and the more we got to know each other she let me know that she wanted to cam with me. It was kinda funny and kinda informative but her advice on what a woman wants continued through all aspects of the encounter, including what angle the cam should be and how I should sit etc........It was very interesting to have her perspective all the way to that level of the encounter. But it was also a little difficult for me as I am NOT exhibitionistic by nature, I prefer to watch the gorgeous woman I am with rather than derive much pleasure from showing off myself. If she had been playing the whole time too it would have been much easier.
I am very thankful to her for giving me such a thorough introduction to camming and a woman's perspective on the matter (I will never just whip it out again!)
Sadly however I did not get to see her play, just some lovely nipple touching........
I am not sure if it will happen again as she has a boy or two that she plays with regularly and I believe her dance card is full.
I think in the realms of cyber sex it is definately a woman's world as every girl I know on here is constantly bombarded with offers by men like me to cam with them and very few of the men have much success in the convincing, the ratios are too weighted against this. I had thought, naively, that I might be able to add some much needed spice to my life and reinvigorate my flagging sex life with some mutual excitement and fulfillment, but I now feel that this avenue of pleasure will just be an occasional random treat and not the cure I had hoped for my sexual blues.
Should I post this or delete it?
Eh nobody reads the guys ones anyway!

In an effort to make chatting with friends a little more exciting I decided to buy a webcam. I have had it now for two weeks and have had little or no chance to do any form of cam fun. I just can't seem to get the timing right with anyone
.........I think maybe I should just not plug it in next time I'm online

I need some birthday loving.

Paul xoxoxoxo

I just have to say I've still got this cum stain on my computer screen from a while ago...........is that too messy that I haven't cleaned it properly? I wiped it off but it is still visible...........kinda looks like a map of Africa.
just sayin

Paul xoxoxoxo