loobylulu's blog post - Being a shared wife

Hi Guys,

I realize I haven't posted much, but the nice thing I've been hearing from a lot of you guys is that you have missed my blogs, so here is an attempt to put that right.
I had probably best bring you up to date with where I am with regards to having sex (with Hubby's full approval & encouragement) outside of my marriage.
It's been a few years now since that first nervous meet in that hotel room with a guy I had met for the first time. I remember how nervous I was & excited too, when he took my panties down. Well believe it or not I still meet up with Paul, that first guy & it's now no longer restricted to just oral sex. it was all new to us back then & we thought that we would keep penetrative sex for just ourselves. That was never really going to work because It is a natural progression to want to have full sex & that's what happened to the delight of us all. I have to say things are a lot easier & more free now, the fact I have now gone through the menopause, so don't have to worry about that. Back in the earlier days though it was a mixture of condoms & being careful, lol, as I wasn't on the pill, even though it wasn't likely at my mature age that I could get caught out, but it was still a risk, without the rubber.Now it's a lot simpler.
The situation at the moment is that I, usually see two guys, on a reasonably regular basis & yes, as I've already mentioned, that includes my first! Since I started out three guys have moved on, as happens in life. Before you ask, yes the two guys I see, do at sometimes visit together! At one point I did have three guys at once. It took some setting up, for all of them to be available together & yes I was a very nervy, excited & busy girl! I still really enjoy what I do. I felt a little guilty at first if I'm honest, probably because I'm a mature married lady sharing my body with others. It's not the accepted thing to do, even though Hubby supports me & enjoys it too. To be fair, I've had lots of lovely comments on here from guys giving me encouragement too & saying If only their wives would do the same. Thanks guys! I guess I just enjoy that naughty side to it & I also get a buzz out of guys finding my fifty ish year old body desirable. Since I've been shared I have learnt a lot more about my body & repressed desires. I find recreational sex to be very liberating & a great thrill. it has to be better than drugs? Not that I've done drugs. lol. At fifty ish, I'm still learning about sex & desire & being more open in trying things that I once thought wasn't for me. As long as it's legal & not too weird I will likely give it a go. It was through being shared that I realized I do actually like to play a little sub, something that I'm not in everyday life. to my surprise I will stretch boundaries a little to please my partner(s) & in doing so, please myself. I can hear you saying what boundaries? Lol. A few examples then, my attitude orally to male cum was you better warn me when it's about to happen, lol. Although I don't exactly compare cum to the nectar from the Gods, I do find myself taking some & enjoying it! I like to be "a good girl!" Anal was also a big no no! Let me just say Hubby's eyes were on stalks at one meet when he realized what was happening. Lol. I can be a very naughty girl if the mood takes me! If you like this as a taster & a bit of an update, let me know & I'll continue. Thanks guys.
Lulu
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