chat hasn't been fun of late though was great speaking 2 star
so id start it of on a smile side

guys pay attention ;
6 deadly terms woman say

1; fine
a word used 2 end n argument when she knows she is right
n when we need 2 shut up

2; nothing
means something
n u need 2 be worried

3; go ahead
this is a dare n don't
do it

4; whatever
a woman's way of saying screw u

5; that's ok
she is thinking long n hard on how u will pay for ur mistake

6; wow
this is not a compliment
she's amazed 1 person could be so stupid

worry doesn't take away tomorrows problems
it takes away todays peace


for us u have lost loved 1s ;
there are moments u wish u could bring some back that u have
lost (passed away)
for a day
spend the day with them just 1 more time
give them 1 last hug
kiss them goodbye
hear their voice again
1 last chance 2 say I love u

i've decided I will never get back 2 my original weight
10 pounds 6 ounces isn't realistic

always be honest n tell people how u feel
because opportunities are lost n a blink of n eye
but regret can last a lifetime

well I couldn't make it to drac's party but it did not go well
take a look


my last bit for holloween

some thoughts;

the thing about true friends
is they are like stars
in the day or on a cloudy nite u cant see them
but u know they are there

what ive learned in life
it dose'nt matter what u look like
u could be tall, short ,overweight or thin,
most beautiful or just u
white, black, yellow, red, or green
it does not matter
what matters is
the size of ur heart
n the strength of ur character
- Herman Monster

have a great weekend !
n live , love n laugh w passion

have some fun



n be safe

thought of the day

there is no need to rush
what's meant for u
it always arrives right on time

lol my wings need repair
so a friend let be borrow her broom

my last breast cancer post
if u have breast cancer or know some1 who has
well worth reading n it could be u some day
my heart is with u
so I leave u with this
it is up 2 u


live love n laugh w passion

I am 40% Italian, 40 % irish n 20% American indian
so im proud 2 be part cherokee native american

1 of the best feeling in the world is when u hug some1 u care about n they hug u back even tighter

value is not the things u have n life
but who u have in ur life

this is amazing grace in Cherokee with beautiful pics


being honest
may not get u a lot of friends
but it always gets u the right 1s

I am a true scorpion n I always do what I say


breast cancer awareness

wishing every1 a happy holloween

live love n laugh w passion

1; some humor
I dated an English girl for 6 n 1/2 years it is a dif. lang. so for my English friends smiling n u know I love u
I use 2 say I don't understand u
can u speak English n she would say I am
so id say well speak American please lol
but I learnt the lang.
can I count that as learning a new lang.
sometimes u just got 2 smile

2; every women deserves a man that calls her sweetheart , beautiful or baby
kisses like he means it
holds her like he never wants her 2 go
does not cheat or lie
wipes her tears when she cries
doesn't make her jealous of other women
and instead makes other women jealous of her
is not afraid to let people know how he really feels about her
n shows her how much he really loves her
flowers are good but its how u treat her

3; I think sometimes we focus 2 much on what we do not have
n
lose site of the good things we already have

4; life is 2 short ive said before sometimes its good 2 do a reckless act of kindness
n love is that way
but u have to listen 2 ur heart not other body parts lol
n when its right u will know

5; being a good person does not depend on anything
u know
other than how u treat others

6; be happy with what u have
its ok to want more but don't lose site if the things that u already have that are good
because their are people with nothing that still manage 2 smile
ive been there n its all about attitude n finding a way 2 smile

7; breast cancer awareness
I thought breast cancer awareness month was n American thing
but it is worldwide
this video is great
n from oz

1:; my heart has gone out this month to friends who have lost loved ones, been treated badly here, and had their heart bent
but still have a great heart
just know im here for u

2; no 1 needs a perfect person ( ok there are none)
we just need a special person who accepts us for who we are
n makes us feel special
if life was so simple

3; as u get older u will understand
its not about what u look like
or all the things u have
it is about the person u have become

4; healing doesn't mean
the damage never exited
it means the damage no longer controls our lifes

5; The trails that are sent along sometimes for us to bear,
May so easily discourage us and weigh us down with care.
Yet, whatever you decide to do, never think of giving in
For, no sooner will this time have passed,
Than a brand new chapter will begin!
For if you ride out this time, you'll find the strength to
carry on.
Even if your energy seems at the moment to be gone.
For, within everyone of us lies a spark that's always lit
Which can easily become a flame as long as we don't quit

6; breast cancer awareness
sometimes in ur darkest hours u just have 2 dance
but most of all find some sunshine

1; find arms that will hold u at ur weakest times
eyes that will see ur beauty at ur ugliest times
n a heart that will love u at ur worst

2; enjoy the simple things n life
because 1 day u may look back n realize they were the most important things

3; smile n spoil the day for a grouch

4; I shook my family tree n a bunch of nuts fell out

5; don't let ur ears witness what u didn't see
don't let ur mouth speak what ur heart doesn't feel

6; always end everyday on a positive thought
tomorrow is a new day

7; happiness dosn't mean that everything is perfect in ur life
it means u have decided 2 look beyond the imperfections
n choose 2 be happy w the good things u have

8; counting any 1s sins
doesn't make a saint

9; sometimes we all spend 2 much time counting down days
that we forget 2 make the days count
each day is a gift

10; the world breaks every1
n afterward
some are strong at the broken places

11; always do sober what u said u would do drunk
that will teach u to not talk so much lol

12; the best way u can find out if u can trust some1 is to trust them

10, 11, n 12 were from ernest hemingway

13; some people think
having a good heart is a bad thing
because u only get hurt
I say a true heart bends but never breaks

14; breast cancer awareness month
beautiful song w awesome words

and a great song for any1 going thru or has gone thru troubles in their life


have a great rest of week
live love n laugh w passion

1; in the end its not the years in ur life that count
its the life in ur years that counts

2; most people are only as happy
as they make up their minds 2 be

3; Character is like a tree and reputation like a shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.

4; The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time.

5; Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle.

6; It has been my experience that folks who have no vices have very few virtues.

7; We should be too big to take offense
and too noble to give it.

the above thoughts were all from Abraham Lincoln

8; happy sunday !! hope ur weekends going great
n u have a great up coming week

9; always laugh when u can
it is the best med.
take daily

10; we are all born with the ability 2 change peoples life's esp. our own

11; for the ladies info;
on self breast cancer checks
I thought it was worth sharing


12; in my many years here
I have had a lot of friends some give up here ,or take breaks, awesome people
some have never come back
just be honest with the people u touch here
it may be called a porn site
but many real people with awesome hearts
never lose site of that

live ,love and laugh w passion

1; a great heart warming story;
A waiter at a Boston-area restaurant witnessed an act of kindness on Tuesday night that's warmed hearts across the internet.
"While waiting tables tonight, a mother and daughter started crying mid-meal. I had no idea what happened until a single guy at the table next to them handed me this note ] with his bill," wrote the waiter in a Reddit post. "Faith in humanity, restored."

the note read;
do me a favor
and bring me their check 2
some1 just got diagnosed
don' tell them

The single guy who had been sitting next to them had been friendly to me all evening, making jokes and such. When he was finished I gave him his check, and inside the billfold was his credit card and that note, that I took a picture of. I combined the 2 checks, and he paid for both. I waited until after he had left to tell them their check had been taken care of. The mother was overwhelmed with gratitude, as was I. It was a great evening.

2, i hope every1 has a great weekend filled w love n laugh as well as great moments

3; the amazing thing about life is u choose
what 2 allow into it
you choose how things effect you
you choose how you react
happiness is a choice
make it
it is up to you

4; a thought from my past raising a teen is like trying to nail jello to a wall

5; today be thankful
and think how rich u are
ur family is priceless
ur time is gold
and ur health is wealth

6; three rules 2 live by
1; never shop when u are hungry
2; don't date when ur horny
3; don't update ur status
when u are drunk

live ,love n laugh w passion

1; starting out w breast cancer awareness
I am wearing pink shirts all month


2; song of the day this 1 is in Spanish
today I have wanted (desired) you


3; the past can not be changed
forgotten, edited or erased
it can only be accepted

4; sometimes u don't realize ur own strength
until some 1 tries to take advantage of ur weaknesses

5; when I look back on my life I see pain,
mistakes n heart ache
when I look in the mirror I see strength, learned lessons and
pride in myself

6; sometimes its more important to be kind than right
having n intelligent mind that speaks is fine,
but a loving heart that listens will do more
I rem. In pass relationships its good 2 know things but is it worth making some1 sad
little things can hurt n its not worth it

7; you will find true happiness in life
when you realize it only takes you 2 be happy
true happiness lies within yourself
it doesn't come from others

8; words to the above Spanish song depending on where u are its want or desire you

You were a passing bird and i don't know for what reason
I got used every day more to you
The two of us invented the adventure of love
you filled my life, and then I saw you leaving
without saying goodbye I saw you leaving

i want to find my way in your arms
and i want you to feel like a woman only with me
Today I want you, today I want you
In your lips i want to the thirst of my soul
and we together find the love every morning
today I want you, today I want you

Nothing is more sad than silence and pain
nothing is more bitter than to know that I lost you
Today I searched in the night the sound of your voice
and where are you hiding to fill with me
fill me with you, fill me with you
i want to find my way in your arms
and i want you to feel like a woman only with me

Today I want you, today I want you
In your lips i want to the thirst of my soul
and we together find the love every morning
today I want you, today I want you

live , love n laugh w passion

have a great rest of the week