Today I cremated my mother, and surprisingly It went realy well,
I know this will sound wierd but we all, that is my father, my brother, and myself, actually had a good day.
We said our good bye's but not the way most would, we where respectful, but we also celebrated her life.
All three of us spoke at the ceramony. We all then luaghed about the times we had spent with her. The last 5 month a thing of the past and for today at least forgotten. It was good to talk to people and family that we had not seen for a while recounting various tails. We all actually had a good time.
That is what she wanted and that is what she got (she always did get her way eventually)
Thank you to everyone on NN how as offered and given they're support It means a lot to me and has made this journey so much easier. If I could ever hug you all I would in a heartbeat..
Thank you.
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