willow01's blog post

Friday, October 2, 2009, 8:07:25 PM

If you know me at all, you will know that about 8 years ago I got divorced rather badly....with a lot of questions going unanswered from my other half. At the time, it was all the unanswered stuff that stopped me moving on and that was what took me sooooooo very long to get over it all.

In time, I did get over everything and have moved on in every way. I suppose some of the questions were still there, in the back of my head though.

A couple of nights ago, me and my ex had a couple of drinks together and a very long talk. It really was a long time coming. The outcome is, that I got a heartfelt appology (which when I heard I jumped up and down for 2 minutes before appologising and telling him how many years I had been waiting for that for!!)

What I can't understand (with myself) is that although this all meant so much to me all those years ago, then why do I still feel so cleansed now?

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north and south on 2-Oct-09 20:34:29

:) xxxxxx

Sandman on 2-Oct-09 20:46:29

Perhaps in your heart you still grieved for a lost love. The healing process needs a starting point.

cas999 on 2-Oct-09 21:28:37

I guess no matter how much you knew it, you needed to hear it to move on...closure :) xxxx

mdguy on 3-Oct-09 6:02:10

He gave you what you needed, finally. That's why. Cas has it right.

lavender sky on 3-Oct-09 9:59:49

Yep i agree with cas, Closure is what you needed and now you have it, You will be able to completely move on xxxx

juicy on 3-Oct-09 12:51:31

Yup, closure for sure.

Hutcheano on 3-Oct-09 16:09:52

'Cause you heard it from him (finally) and maybe he's grown up a wee bit since. His loss, sill boy X.