I've been wondering what sort of pics people want to see of guys as I'm thinking about making some more and would like to put some more up and wondering what everyone would like to see

I was meant to catch up with a few friends in the city after work to have a few drinks for my birthday but after waiting half an hour and no one showing I decided to call it and go home, by the time I got home I have a missed a call while I was driving from a mate asking where I was, I explained the situation and decided to still meet up for a drink at a workmans bar half way between his place and mine. We caught up at the bar and had a couple of beer and chatted for a bit and managed to catch the show where a delightful young lady removed her clothes to cheers and whistles from the patrons at the bar. It saved what could have turned out to be a depressing evening.

Funny thing is even is my mate hadn't called at all it still wouldn't have been the worst birthday I have had.

I've turned 35 today and I have spent the evening filling out divorce paper work cause that's the sort of crazy fun that I get up to, I guess its a good way to start the next year of my life with a clean slate

Really looking forward to having a few drinks with friends tomorrow night after work

I've spent a few weeks traveling for work ,, it was fairly uneventful these things happen sometimes when you try to meet new people some time.

I really have missed being able to sit at home naked and play the guitar which I'm about to go and do for the next few hours.

I hope that everyone has a good weekend

It's been a while since I put anything down on my blog so I'll give a quick update

Since I was last on - I spent 4 months without being able to get an erection
- I hooked up with a friend and had a casual fling with her till she started dating again
- works kept me on the road so I've been meeting a lot of new people
- I think I'm ready to start a relationship
- I've managed to get myself to a good space in my head

okay ,, there wasn't as much stuff as i thought there was

I've come to the conclusion that I'm not ready to deal with people yet ,, its annoying because thats what i miss the most about being married ,, more visits to the shrink for me

I've paid up and joined a adult dating site ,, I figured it would be a good way to meet people with the divorvce going on but once I paid the dues and started messaging people it starts off fine with a bit of flirty chat but once I show my face pic to people they never talk to me again ,, I've been told that I have a cute baby face and look younger than I am but it seems like they have all lied to me about it and I feel frustrated that I've paid to have people tell me I'm ugly ,, I may be over reacting to it all but its really killed off the last of my self confidence and self worth that I had

I have joined serveral adult dating sites just to see whats out there ,, I'm happy to chat to most people and see what happens from there but I have an elderly gent that turns me off chasing me ,, I'm trying to figure out a way to tell him I'm not interested without being a total bastard ,, any ideas how too

Last night I was on an adult dating site just checking out what was around when I got a msg from another member. When I checked his profile I noticed that he was straight which I'm not. I clarified that he knew what I was into, which he did and that he had been getting hard over the idea of riding a nice hard cock. We chatted about it only to find out he didn't really want too. If he just wanted a chat to wank over I would have been happy to oblige but the deceit in a lead on while worth a laugh with some open minded friends is annoying.

The other thing I don't understand about dating sites are ladies that have a "no bi guy" policy, its not like that if I meet someone through a site I'm going to rock up with a mate or even want to play with someone else at the sametime. If I show up for you then thats what I want nothing more.

My marrage is over ,, my wife told me that she has grown and no longer feels that she is getting what she needs out of us. It hit me like a ton of bricks but over the last few day I have decided that I can't dwell on what I have lost but the great times that we had together. So rather than sit around and be depressed over it all I have decided to throw a wedding wake and have all the people over that have been involed in the relationship one way or another and celebrate all the good times had. I hope this will help me move forward. If anyone else has done anything like this how did it turn out for them ??